I am clueless what to do ladies. I need opinions. As you all know I found out he was cheating. Of…
I am clueless what to do ladies. I need opinions. As you all know I found out he was cheating. Of course, I get the whole sob story and everything but I am not buying it. He says he will stay single till I come back and all this crazy stuff. I really do care for him not just cause he is the father of my child but I also care for him. I honestly dont know what to do. The night that happened keeps playin in my head over and over again. I am not sure what to do.
Angelique Lezette·
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It's better if you have time for yourself to think. :) seriously, I would get a room for like 3 days, and just enjoy yourself while thinking.
missing300user·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I agree fully with @lezette 😊
Reasha·
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like my family already knows what he has done. but ive never dreamed of not having my family together.
Ashley Harmon ·
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Absolutely, he needs to understand that he hurt you, and he can be sorry and he can say all of these things but it doesn't change what he did. Take some time to yourself to really think about what you deserve, because you deserve much better than to be cheated on. He may be thinking that way "now" but it's the fact that before he was not thinking of you and cheated on you while you're pregnant. Which is not okay!
Reasha·
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And I have told him that. I know i deserve the best. He went against his own flesh and blood and chose some bitch over his child and I. @lezette @soontobemomof4 @sashleythomp
Ashley Harmon ·
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@reashie_bby, exactly, don't let him cloud your judgement with promises that could be empty. He got caught and that's why he is sorry, take some time for you girl!
Reasha·
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Thank you ladies! Your the best! @adriennelea
Adrienne·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)
why am I tagged in this
emily·
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Girl the only thing I can really say is once a cheater, always a cheater. I'm sure you're probably sick of hearing that by now but I unfortunately have experience with that. A huge difference is I didn't have a child with the guys who cheated on me, so I know that makes everything all the more complicated. But if he can choose another girl over you and your child once, he will do it again. And if you take him back you're only giving him a chance to do it again. I really hope everything works out for you, I know how much being cheated on hurts. I hope you're keeping your head up and not thinking you're any less of a person because of his actions
emily·
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Not only do you need to remember how much better you deserve, but what your child deserves in a father. I promise there is light at the end of the tunnel ☺️
Kandice Stedman·
I agree with @lezette take some time for you. Figure out the reasons who, what, when, where why etc then make a decision you can live with. Don't act off emotions think it thru. The best decision may be to stay or to go. Your heart will tell u.