babyv16
babyv16
babyv16·В ожидании первенца

so recently my husband and I moved to a bigger house to make room for our sweet new arrival in june.. his older brother moved in with us until he gets back on his feet... well it's like I'm having to take care of 4 people instead of 3.. it's like I have another child I have to pick up after.. I do all the laundry I do the dishes I clean the house my husband takes out the trash.. all his brother does is eat stay up all night sleep all day and leave.. he works 3 days a week and doesn't help out with anything.. not to mention he gets paid every two weeks and still has a week until he gets paid again and us out of money already. but not a dime went to anything useful or towards helping us.. we have bought him a vehicle to travel back and forth on and he is suppose to be making payments to us on it and we have yet to see the first dime... I'm starting to get a little aggravated because I'm due in 3 months and I still have a ton to unpack on top of trying to keep my house up by myself when I have one person who is here just as much as me and doesn't help.. I don't stress about my husband not helping cuz he works 12-15 hrs a day.. this is getting tiring.. I wish I would have never agreed to him living here.

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babyv16
babyv16·В ожидании первенца

it'd driving me insane

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twinmommy523
Brianna·В ожидании первенца

I'd tell him and my husband he has to leave.. He's totally taking advantage. It's only going to get worse before it gets any better. Especially if he's still around when the baby comes. I love my husbands brother but that wouldn't fly in my house.

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missing201user

I would not be washing his clothes. I imagine since he isn't paying a dime he should be able to save up his money nicely.

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