so recently my husband and I moved to a bigger house to make room for our sweet new arrival in june.. his older brother moved in with us until he gets back on his feet... well it's like I'm having to take care of 4 people instead of 3.. it's like I have another child I have to pick up after.. I do all the laundry I do the dishes I clean the house my husband takes out the trash.. all his brother does is eat stay up all night sleep all day and leave.. he works 3 days a week and doesn't help out with anything.. not to mention he gets paid every two weeks and still has a week until he gets paid again and us out of money already. but not a dime went to anything useful or towards helping us.. we have bought him a vehicle to travel back and forth on and he is suppose to be making payments to us on it and we have yet to see the first dime... I'm starting to get a little aggravated because I'm due in 3 months and I still have a ton to unpack on top of trying to keep my house up by myself when I have one person who is here just as much as me and doesn't help.. I don't stress about my husband not helping cuz he works 12-15 hrs a day.. this is getting tiring.. I wish I would have never agreed to him living here.
I'd tell him and my husband he has to leave.. He's totally taking advantage. It's only going to get worse before it gets any better. Especially if he's still around when the baby comes. I love my husbands brother but that wouldn't fly in my house.
I would not be washing his clothes. I imagine since he isn't paying a dime he should be able to save up his money nicely.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Prayers needed please
My husband is on his way to his mothers house, and he has no idea when he gets there that he is going to find out his little brother killed himself thismorning.

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I prefer being barefooted everyday of my life. My husband has to have something on his feet at all times. He cannot walk around the house without slippers.
My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
it'd driving me insane