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Amanda
Amanda
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

Idk if it's just me but I get really annoyed when I see people post about wanting to give birth…

Idk if it's just me but I get really annoyed when I see people post about wanting to give birth early cause they can no longer take it. I had my child at 29 weeks and how I wished I could've kept her in till 40 weeks. I understand pregnancy cause a toll on our bodies but there is some of us who couldn't even reach that far and really want to.

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kristinlynn0903

Kristin

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@amaperalta03, amen they dont realize they will have to go home without there baby when they get discharged. I had my daughter at 34 weeks and that was the toughest thing for me

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kayloniandkirksmommy

Julia

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)

I get irritated too. my daughter was born at 32 weeks and it was so stressful. I'm high risk with my son, but they think he'll be full term. but sometimes, yes, I do want him out early....my son is bigger then my daughter and I'm really uncomfortable now that I'm 32 weeks

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@kristinlynn0903, exactly like if you can't handle it should've never gotten pregnant. I see many moms on here as early as 34 weeks talking about how they ready for their baby to come even though it's early. They won't say that once their child has to stay in the nicu

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kristinlynn0903

Kristin

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@amaperalta03, nope because here in NC they tell you expect the baby to stay until the due date so I myself would rather have them in my body than left at a hospital

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mirandahaddaway16

Miranda

Мама сына-младенца

my son was 3 days late and still ended up being in NICU for 24 hours.

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mirandahaddaway16

Miranda

Мама сына-младенца

I wanted him to come so bad when I was pregnant but I'm glad he came full term

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@kayloniandkaismommy, I'm high risk as well and I'm only 10 weeks and getting my ass kicked already but not once will I complain and say I want my baby out early. I can't become a nicu mom again I refuse to

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@kristinlynn0903, my daughter had a 40 day nicu stay and they said that was a short stay for a 29 weeker. Thank god she excelled quick but 40 days was long enough I don't want to do it again

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@jaycereillysmommy, I've heard of things like that and that one night away probably drives you crazy right ?

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kristinlynn0903

Kristin

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@amaperalta03, well CamBria only had to stay for 10 days because she came at 34 weeks but still even one day without her kills me even now lol

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@kristinlynn0903, exactly even one day is hard ! I'm hoping and praying to carry at least until 37 weeks when the baby is no longer considered premature.

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kayloniandkirksmommy

Julia

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)

@amaperalta03, I wouldn't risk it again because I absolutely can't handle the nicu again...but I do wish it sometimes. I'm doing everything in my power, even though I'm uncomfortable, to keep him in. my biggest enemy right now is stress because I'm a single mom until my husband comes home and my 2 year old is autistic....

part of me didn't realize how abnormal my pregnancy was with my daughter to be honest. this has been a "normal" pregnancy, so my frustration is experiencing things I should have in my first pregnancy lol

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mirandahaddaway16

Miranda

Мама сына-младенца

yes. I went and sat in his room before I went to bed and as soon as I woke up me and my fiancé were back in there. it was so hard just because when he was born they told me 6-8 hours and then it went from there to keeping him for 24. he was facing side ways when I started pushing so they tried to turn him and realized his cord was around his neck and he had fluid and meconium in his lungs. when he was born he was so gray that they cut the cord and took him so his dad never got to cut the cord

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lovemiithree

tiffany

Мама двоих (6 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

most the time people are just talking shit because they are uncomfortable it's just like ughh i wish it was time already ...

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jaxmomma

Tiffany

Мама сына-младенца

I was one of those who kept saying I wanted my baby a week or two early because I was so impatient to meet him, but he came at 40 weeks and 2 days and I'm so happy that he waited to come. My sister was born at 28 weeks and we had to wait 3 months for her to come home. It was so upsetting always having to leave her. So anyone that can go full term is blessed.

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@jaycereillysmommy, my boyfriend also never got to cut the cord cause they were in a rush to get her to the nicu. hoping this time around he can

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@jaxmomma I can understand why I woman would complain on wanting their baby early. But it's woman like me who don't understand why they want their baby early. It just upset me when I see someone being serious about having a baby too early

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leahmommy

Chanel

В ожидании первенца

Yeah wanting your baby out early is dangerous... I was born premature and my mom had to Leave me in nicu she said it broke her heart

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lkmama

Ara

I feel the same way, yes it is uncomfortable and makes everything difficult towards the end, but I much rather deal with that and have my baby be as healthy as possible! I didn't give birth to my daughter until 41 weeks 1 day and would be completely fine if this one goes after 40 weeks too. I will let him come when he is ready :)

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arynbaby6

Veronique

Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

I don't think they are wishing to have the baby early more like they are tired of being pregnant I've had ALL my five kids early and don't want to be pregnant any more with this pregnancy that doesn't mean they or I don't know we still need to carry the baby longer. It's more of venting.

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amaperalta03

Amanda

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

@baby6aryn, I'm speaking in reference to people who are serious and asking ways to go into labor early. But I don't expect a normal mom to understand how I feel about this just how I don't understand how they would want to go into labor early risking the babies health.

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arynbaby6

Veronique

Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

Yes I think those people have a sense of false assurance that 35 weeks is good to have baby with no problems. They may have heard things like my first. Who was born at 7'1 with no problems at 35 weeks and came home with me. No n.i.c.u. time. They just need to be educated. That's all. I've also had babies at 31 and 33 weeks so I completely know what having babies extremely early can mean.

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