Should Husbands Help with Newborns and Household Chores?

My husband pissed me off: So we were watching something and a man was out having fun while his wife was home with a 2 day old baby. So I say well dang he should have been home with his wife and baby. He goes well we can't have fun, I didn't have the baby. So um like at 2 days old, you don't think we need help with the baby, around the house, with our other kids...he was speechless. Shit you didn't carry, or push out a baby but you had a lot to do with it. if we have to be confined to the house and dealing with baby so should you lol. SN: So he wanted to be a dick, so I can be a even bigger dick. I said that's fine I'm use to doing it on my own anyway (like with my 1st daughter) he is not the sperm donor. Boy did he get heated bol...who cares, you can dish it but you cant take it. Humph, am I wrong for feeling this way