Rant: So I'm not far along but my I've already been told not to be lifting anything heavy or putting…

Rant:

So I'm not far along but my I've already been told not to be lifting anything heavy or putting stress on my body. Today I definitely feel like I over did it. I helped setup at the baby shower with my gramma and Tia who didn't know I'm pregnant until after we were done. Anyways, I lifted heavy wooden tables and chairs, I carried heavy cooking equipment and my heavy niece. My hips, legs, and feet (I made the mistake of wearing NEW flats) were super tired by the time the party started! So guess what? I didn't do anything else the whole party. I just sat and had fun. Well I get up and get ready to leave and my gramma and Tia just about threw a fit and got all mad at me for not helping clean up. Like no, I'm exhausted. My body is sore and I'm cramping. This is not my party, I only had a part in it because of the location, other than that I had nothing to do with the planning of it. Im sorry if that offends you but the health of my baby & pregnancy is more important than cleaning up. There was plenty of other people who could help.