Ok, I'll NEVER understand how some women try to justify a woman's sorrows that put her baby up for…

Ok, I'll NEVER understand how some women try to justify a woman's sorrows that put her baby up for adoption by saying "well,atleast you didn't abort it and you gave it a chance to live" News flash! They will live their whole lives wondering why they weren't good enough or why you couldn't stand up and take care of what came out of what happened when you laid down. I'm adopted and honestly I'll never get over it and EVERY single person ive met thats been adopted feels the same. It's that type of thing that you just put In the back of your mind and learn to live with it. I have a better way of solving that issue. Don't have sex if you don't want a baby. #notokay