need to rant ladies, sorry, so here goes
need to rant ladies, sorry, so here goes
have you ever looked back on your OH'S facebook or tumbler, to see that he used to post everywhere with his ex girlfriend, write cute status, put up cute photos about her, and always go on about her?
with me, he won't even say I love you on there, and we have been together almost a year and I'm carrying his son!
seen so many posts and he knows there still there, he was looking through them today whilst laid in bed with me! why can't he just delete them
harder thing is (I'm not just being jealous to be petty) about a week before we got together (I'm didn't know this) he was planning on paying for her to come to darlington and stay in a hotel with her and see if they could work it out together, he even called himself father to her son! they where only together a short time, less than 6 months, but it's killing me thinking he still has feelings for her 😢😢
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
yup it sucks x
Lauren Butcher·
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I hate knowing I'm not just being stupid, there is something there or why would he cling to the memories? why do all that for her and never for me? am I not good enough? 😢 @tg123456789 x
Terri·
Мама сына (11 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
have u spoke to him about it x
Lauren Butcher·
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Yeah, he laughs it off and says don't be daft x
missing370user·
Yep fuck facebook I agree @mrsmowmow It's the most pretentious fake place ever. Me and my fella both came off it over a year ago, best thing we did x
Danielle Wright·
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This used to bother me. my husband posted everything when he was with his ex, and we rarely post what we do on Facebook. I just asked if I could delete the stuff to do with his ex and he let me go through and get rid of it. He thinks I'm being silly but it's not something I wanted to see coming up on that facebook app what you were doing so many years ago today! x
Lauren Butcher·
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see he won't do that, I asked! he just laughed and said not to be so silly, but why sit and look at them? doesn't make sense to me :( x @bambi16
Danielle Wright·
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It's strange that he's so reluctant when surely he can see it means something to you. My OH will say he thinks I'm being silly but he won't stop me doing something if it makes me feel better. @lolliigee xx
Lauren Butcher·
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no he's not bothered at all, I'm finding it hard that he was so connected to her son, that he knew for 4 months and got him to call him dad, but whenever I mention our son, he tells me he doesn't want to hear it because I talk to much about him! I only ever tell him when he's moving, or there's a big development, I feel like he's losing interest, and just wants her back xx @bambi16
Lou Rae 🌼·
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Sometimes people post alot on facebook about another person because they are actually insecure about the relationship. I used to do it with my ex and it was actually because I didn't trust him and wanted everyone to know he was mine and to back off but in this relationship I don't feel the need to do that at all because I trust him entirely. Maybe this is a similar situation. Your OH should however respect your feelings and not be reading back on posts with his ex, pretty disrespectful. Keep talking about your son :) he is going to be your world :) xx
Lauren Butcher·
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thank you @lou ! xxx