So my fiancé is here showing me locations of potential wedding locations. Only after my dad calls…
So my fiancé is here showing me locations of potential wedding locations. Only after my dad calls and says "hey what happen with the marriage thing? I thought y'all was suppose to get married before the baby comes?" ...wtf I'm feeling really overwhelmed. Our relationship is less then perfect money is tight but we love each other and remain together. Are we ready for marriage? I fear divorce. Should I take our savings and just go for it.?? What do I have to lose? Anyone went or going through something similar?? (3weeks away from due date)
Daeishia·
Baby girl don't let no one pressure you to do anything give it to God and do it when yall comfortable and have the funds @corallove
missing561user·
You owe it to urself and ur family to wait until you're ready don't let anyone pressure you!!
Stephanie Greenwood·
See me and my man are in a agreement that we are waiting until after the baby gets here cause I don't wanna look back at my wedding photos and see baby belly everywhere. I wanna be able to enjoy my drink on my wedding day and have fun drunk sex after the reception, maybe durning in a closet somewhere(lmfaoo jk) but seriously, I don't blame you for wanting to wait I wanna be able to enjoy myself and not be worried weather or not if I get the expensive flowers or cake or decorations that I'm not gunna have enough for diapers or formula later on, you know. I wanna be ready in every category, not just the pleasing of others category.
Stephanie Greenwood·
@corallove,
corallove·
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@dae, @shayyliynn @littlefootloove Thank you ladies 🤗 maybe all that matters right now is that we're together.. As a family👪
Stephanie Greenwood·
@corallove, yess ma'am!! that's what I believe anyways!! plus do you realize how much stress and a head ache it would be to plan a wedding in less the 3 weeks and the hope your water doesn't break all over your dress or you hope you don't get nauseous and throw up all over it!! J's those are my biggest fears with having a wedding while prego! lol
Chelsea·
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The last thing you want to do is rush into marriage. Especially if you are having fears already. You need to be sure of yourself and be in a very comfortable spot. My husband and I have been together for a total of 7 years. Married for 2 of them. And even we rushed into our marriage and it caused a lot of unneeded stress. We were comfortable where we were before and we shouldn't have felt obligated to do it just because. Just be happy and live your life as a family, marriage can always come later 😊.