I swear every single time my mom is on the phone with someone I hear her talking shit about how I'm…

My mom is the same 😕 some people just have no shame! SMH

She's like "This is my house. I can talk to anyone I want about whatever I want, whenever I want!? WHY were you listening to my conversation then?" Like I don't even have to try... why do you have to be such a shit talker...

My grandma use to do me the same way when I was younger. I moved out on my own because of it. I'm praying for you and try to stay focused on the goal. I stopped listening. I realized that's what older people do. They talk shit. Do what you have to do for baby.

@babymay2016 yeah like I don't even have to try to listen she talks loud as hell. But whenever I confront my mom about it she always makes something up, I swear she is two faced. Like when she talks to my sister she always talks shit about me because I think that's the only thing they have in common to talk about. Then when I confront her she's like "she was asking me blah blah blah so that's why I said that, you must have heard me wrong." Shit like that. She wants to talk shit but still wants to keep me around to talk shit about other people to. I swear to god she is like a high schooler and I'm fucking sick of it.

@gcpaschal my boyfriend and I were originally staying with his dad and step mom, before I found out I was pregnant. We moved out of our house because the landlords were terrible and we were having to pay out of pocket for stuff they should have been taking care of. So we broke our lease and moved in with his dad to save money. Shortly after we found out I was pregnant, then my bf got laid off from his job of 7 years so we were stuck. The relationship with his dad and step mom quickly went downhill because they are just awful people, his dad has a prescription pill addiction that has gotten so bad that he goes to the ER daily complaining of different ailments in an attempt to get pain meds. So long story short we decided to stay at my parents temporarily because the stress of being there was affecting my baby. Our stuff is still there though. so I really feel like I have absolutely nowhere to go at all. My bf just started a new job thank god but we still have yet to move. I'm scared we won't move in time for the baby to get here then we will have no where to take him. 😞😞 I feel like I'm so fucked. Otherwise I would just move right this second like you did because of your grandma. That's exactly what I wanna do

Where do you live? Can you try to find out if you qualify for assistance with housing? Can you try to get a work from home job?

Oh..you're 32 weeks!

BF has to save every dime. You 3 may have to find a studio apt. and make due if you can. Do u think that's possible?

My mom is the fakest person I know and she does the same thing. Yells and goes crazy like a freaking child, referring to me as Princess Kayla and acting like I'm the one being ridiculous... Says she didn't say something even if it was recorded she would be saying that wasn't her. I get you girl. I'm basically in the same position and I'm 31 weeks pregnant, working maaaybe one day a week with no help from my baby's father. I hope things get better for you momma 🙏💚

He is gonna be making more than enough for me to stay home with the baby so that's not an issue and because of how much he will be making we wouldn't qualify for housing assistance. We looked into it and the waiting list is 4 years anyway 😳. But the main thing is trying to find a place that will take us when he hasn't even been at this new job a full month AND because we broke the lease early at our last place. It just really sucks. Baby happened with bad timing, I was on the pill too. But we know we can do it we just have to work really hard. But all week this week I've been begging him to call around to different places to try and get us in and he just won't fuckin do it. I'm getting so pissed off. Since he's the one with the job and knows his hours and pay that's why I want him to be the one to call. I found a ton of places and got the phone numbers and everything, all he has to do is dial the damn phone but for some god damn reason he refuses to do it. Every day he falls asleep and takes a 4 hour fucking nap even though I'm the one that's pregnant and hardly sleep at night at all, I can still stay away all damn day but he can't when he sleeps like a rock. He's been majorly supportive through my whole pregnancy and is an amazing guy all around but it's like it's not getting through his head that when I have the baby we are gonna be HOMELESS unless he picks up the phone and starts calling places and finds somewhere for us to move in to NOW. ugh sorry for the rant im just so stressed out. And that in itself is stressing me out because stress can make the baby come early which is exactly what I don't need 😤😓 fuuuuxk

@mabymay2016 oh man so you're only a week behind me just about. I hope things get better for you too. I'm lucky that my baby's father is more than involved but that doesn't mean our situation is any better. See my other long ass comments to know the story. What sucks is my sister is a college grad with 3 masters degrees and her own house in the mountains and I'm constantly getting compared to her. I went to college just didn't finish because my parents weren't paying for mine but paid for hers even though she went to two out of state schools. They just think I'm a complete fuck up. 😔