My mom and step dad adopted my 4 year old daughter Isabella, today they are downtown at the zoo and…

Can you try to take her to court for custody

I honestly think she'll fight me tooth and nail as hard as she can to try and prove im an unfit parent and im terrified of losing this baby as well @abeals04

You need to be truthful she needs to know your her mother if you let her grow up living in that lie your gonna regret it.And shes gonna have so much resentment towards you and your mother.No one deserve to live in a lie like that.Thats really sad!

the older your baby gets shes gonna find out your her mom! and you should fight it in court. shes your baby!!! @spoiled4neonpink

I lost my oldest too and didn't even get a chance to prove that I was a good mother. I was young and my fiances parents now have custody of him.

Try and save up make sure you have a good place to live a job and car and just try to prove your mom wrong it took my sister in law four years to get custody back of her daughter but she lives with daddy and daddy uses her as a pawn your parents also need to remember that it's not their child because they aren't gonna be around forever and what is going to happen when she finds out later in life that everything she knew was a lie they aren't being fair to her my niece was never allowed to call her nana and papa mom or dad bc they weren't her parents they need to remember that also try going to parenting classes sometimes you can find free ones and it would prove to the courts your trying to improve yourself for your daughter best of luck your parents really should think of the damage they are potentially doing

I lost my parental rights so I'm not sure if going to court would do anything. I want to tell my mom how I feel but I'm worried that she won't let me see her anymore, and I can't lose her it would be completely devastating and honestly since I have depression and have had suicidal thoughts in the past. I don't know what I would do my girls and my husband are the only reasons i feel like i have to live. I havent had my daughter with me since she was 14 months old. Now she is 4, I have been dying everyday that's she's been gone. I have a job and I have an apartment, a car and I am so much better than where I was and I just want the chance to raise my child. I don't want Isabella to be confused and broken down if I do get her back. I terrified that she'll hate me. A lot she tells me she remembers being in my belly and she calls me mama when my mother is not around and she has told my husband he was her daddy. I have so many confusing feelings right now and the main one is Terrified.

@abeals04 @lonia @milanlang @renny_rayye16

I haven't had my son with me since he was 4 days old. but I know that they are doing an awesome job and I can't blame myself for what happened a long time ago. god has given me 2 other beautiful kids and I thank Jim that I can raise these 2 the way I couldn't raise him @spoiled4neonpink

him I mean not Jim lmao

Look at this most lawyers will do a first meeting for free but this site does say depending on the state you can get rights back http://family.findlaw.com/parental-rights-and-liability/reinstatement-of-parental-rights-after-termi

im sorry i had something similar with my son and parents......he is 14 now and he loves me..... but one day i would like to tell him the truth on why things were tge way they were..... i just dont kniw excactly when but ill be able to tell him soon hes now in texas living with his dad and his new wife witch honestly i like it like that better than when he was with my parents.... yeah i could see him more when he was with them but i dont like the way my parents would treat me and him..... they would make him think it was okay to disrespect me..... he didnt have to listen to me and there was nothing i could do about it...... i like him with his dad because i know his dad would make him listen to me if i was there..... im just in hawaii and hes in texas but his dad mskes him call me on holidays and i can just already tell the change its only been a year though since hes been in texas..... but his attitude is changing...... he will come and visit in june fir two weeks to meet his little brother and we will see how he is im excited because i bet his attitude will be different......i know it hurts but time is SLOWLY healing all..

.. there is stilll lots of healing for me and probably him too.

...but no where near as bad as the pain was at the beginning when my mom was having a ball dominating and making me look like the bad guy when it was actually her that was the bad guy..... its hard to talk about because everyone thinks well why would your own do that unless you did something bad.....but tgat is not always the case..... my mom has do e some evil things to me that she has got to feel guilty about that i can only feel bad for her now to have to live with...but thats her problem now i still feel like there's some patching up to do with my son...... and now that hes away from them it feels like it can be patched rather than that feeling of idk if it can ever be fixed. .....well im just letting you know your not alone. ... and i understand that pain is like no one can imagine...... but you will be way stronger because of it..... the way i look at it was i may have gotten delt a bad hand with the mom i have but at least my son has me even though your not there exactly how you would like to be at least you can be there..... and be there in ways your mom cant because no matter what you are the mom not her.....

@spoiled4neonpink,

@mspeece, @abeals04 @milanlang @renny_rayye16 @lonia Thank you all for o your advice and for sharing, i appreciate it so much