Im so torn right now. my mom wants to throw me a sprinkle since it's my last baby but I really don't…

Im so torn right now. my mom wants to throw me a sprinkle since it's my last baby but I really don't want one since I'm having another girl. she said it doesn't matter she still throwing me one. I only had one shower and it was with my oldest almost 7 years ago and I never received a gift or anything from anyone or family when I was pregnant with my other 2 girls so I always relied on myself to buy everything that I needed for my kids.