So last night i was texting my boyfriends cousin seeing if the headband kit came in for my baby…

So last night i was texting my boyfriends cousin seeing if the headband kit came in for my baby shower that's next weekend so they did. I was asking her if I can come by tomorrow which is today to pick them up and she said she wasn't going to be home so I said okay and she said I can take them to the shower and I asked can you get there 30 minutes early and she said I'll try, she has 3 kids and she is always running late to things, I don't want to risk her being late I want everything set up when my guest arrive. I hope my boyfriend fixes the problem. She is being so difficult like why can't I just go get them? I appreciate her buying it but still this is my shower I want everything to be out. What do you mommys think?