4.5 weeks later and the bleeding FINALLY stops!!!! Can I have sex now? Someone please tell me I can.

Not till your 6 week check up

I did after 2 weeks still bleeding with stitches lol I was alright, it still healed fine. I'd say your good.

use protection of some sort and as long as you feel comfortable I say go for it. I'm trying to get at it a week after

i say go for it because when i had my daughter i waited three weeks before me and my boyfriend had sex

just make sure you protect yourself or you will be having another baby

my friend told me she had sex literally right after birth.. in the hospital shower... which sounds fucking awful but i think you are fine lol i has sex for the first time around 4 weeks after delivery after the bleeding stopped