So for those of you that have read my previous posts.. Is it wrong of me to ask Matthew exactly what…
So for those of you that have read my previous posts.. Is it wrong of me to ask Matthew exactly what is okay and what is not okay? He wants to be just friends right now. But offered to rub me, and he was playing with my hand and kissed my forehead. I am just so confused.. And when I asked hes all I dont know. Well you are the one who said we are just friends, you should know what is okay and what is not. I cant be going through this at 32 weeks pregnant. He says he will only love me and only be with me.. And he keeps asking how I feel about this and all i can say is numb, I feel numb. Like how else am I suppose to feel? And he wants to buy me things and I just feel weird having a friend buy me a phone and other things I need.. I dont want his pity money, but I also cant get a job.. Any opinions?
Vanessa·
I haven't read your previous posts, maybe you should tell him what it is you are ok with and not ok with right now. You know? Kinda say here look here's what I need right now etc
keneia·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
I went through a similar situation with my husband, right before I miscarried during our last pregnancy. he decided he wanted a break and was still being affectionate toward me when we were around each other. very indecisive it turned out he was fucking a 21 year old he left to be with her livin on his mother's floor with the little tramp for 3 months before crawling back. I gave him a 6 month probation period to which we had no sex and only worked on seeing if we really wanted to try again before letting him come home. we are together now... you never know. men are horrible at communication. Maybe he is just overwhelmed with everything as you are and needs to get his barings. give him a little space, let him know you feel uncomfortable being affectionate.
Jennifer Stough·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
I am seriously furious for you. he needs to stop playing games. he can't have both of best world's. sounds like my ex boyfriend when his ex was pregnant with their son. Sleeping with me, telling me he wanted to be with me, but being super affectionate to her in the ruse that he wanted to be there for her as a friend and support her through the pregnancy when really he was playing us both. He doesn't get to decide what is "ok" for you to feel or want. that is completely unfair. He is your husband, and you are his pregnant wife. If he wasn't unsure of what he wanted he should have thought about that before marrying you and before bearing a child with you. I really believe you should put your foot down. I know you want that support and affection and it's going to get lonely, but letting him have his way is only going to enforce the idea that it's ok for him to do this to you and still have everything he wants.