RANT POST My BD/boyfriend just broke up with me basically. Said he's scared of love and he knows I…
RANT POST
My BD/boyfriend just broke up with me basically. Said he's scared of love and he knows I deserve better that he can't give to me (not financial or material but emotionally). Said that he hasn't done this "thing" in a long time and doesn't know how to be a boyfriend. Like wtf kind of excuse is that? We don't know how to be parents but we'll LEARN! I feel played af. When I look at it in retrospect he's been dropping hints for a while saying things like "no matter if we together or not we can never let that come between our son" and " I hope whatever goes on with us that we'll never be bitter or hateful towards one another". SMMFH! I don't get it so you weren't being a "boyfriend" this past year and a half? Granted he's not the most expressive or romantic guy in the world I know he loves me without the bells and whistles. Makes me feel like oh I'm good enough to be your baby mama but not your woman??!! I'm so angry....and mostly at myself 😢😢😢😕😕
Armani·
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I went through the the same thing but it was because my boyfriend had a lot of personal issues from his childhood and being adopted . He was just scared and we decided to go to counseling. It took about a month or two to really see change but he's been a lot better and a lot more expressive and trying emotionally . See if your insurance can cover it and I think it will be a great help.
Jordan·
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girl I wish but that would never happen but he doesn't even open up to me so that's never going to be an option.. he think therapy is for "crazy people". he's a hood/country dude with a very different way of thinking than other people. he got his ex about 5 years ago pregnant and when she was about 2 months she left him and pinned the baby on her current fiancé. so he has a lot of issues from that but counseling just won't ever happen unfortunately @ljmommy
Armani·
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My boyfriend never would open up to me and was completely against counseling at first but I begged him to just go one time and if he didn't like it he could stop but he kept wanting to go afterwards. & I swear our situation is so similar. He has issues with his ex from 4 years ago but that's a whole other story. Feel free to PM me or text me tho.