RANT OF THE NIGHT!!!! So my fiancé son is staying with us for a week he is 4. And I hate to sound…

@babymay2016

@lucylue

Oh girl I would feel the same way! I would definitely enforce a bedtime and also no food/drink except water past a certain time. It may be difficult at first but will definitely pay off!

He may not be your son but he is staying in your house which means your rules go!!!

I have step kids at first o wouldn't say anything to them but now if they get out of line I get on to them

OMG!he needs a bed time,4yr old eating sweets late and no rules.Uhm yes!Kids are smart they know what they can get away with..

Yeah I kinda just sit back and look crazy as of right now bc I don't want fiancé to feel like I'm being mean. (He kinda already think I don't like the kid) but what I don't like is he let the lil boy do whatever I feel like the child needs to understand who is the adult

@lucylue, @babymay2016 @babymay2016

And my child is 10m old and when he gets of age he is going to have rules . And I feel like when his kids come I feel like they need rules ... I guess cause he don't see the boy 24/7 he feel like he has to let him do whatever idk but it's starting to piss me off

But me and my fiancé have bumped heads before bc we obviously have different parenting styles

@babylanders, when did you finally start saying somethings

it took me awhile girl I think after a year and half of being with him I just had to be comfortable with them

talk to your fiancee, remember both of your guyss kids are gna be seeing eachother for lifetime and you don't want his kids coming over being wild,your kids are gna want to act the same. You will be surprised at the diffrence!I went thru something similar,exept it happened when my sister in law needed to sleep over for a week at my house..My daughter is 5yrs old,at age 3 when she started preschool we strictly set a bed time routine for her,right now she is 5yrs old,we start dinner at 5,bedtime routine at 6pm,by 7.30 she is in bed..exept for weekends we let her be up longer..Well my SIL has 2 kids,boy n girl,Bo rules,no bed time..First 2 days I went crazy!my Lil one was tryn to shower and they were invading her privacy,knocking on BR door!screaming her name,hiding her clothes,you name it.When she was trying to sleep,they would be screaming,crying,watching LOUD tv!all lights were on.Spoke to my hubby kz since it was HIS part of family I wanted him to step up,we'll he didn't and I took action,I wasn't gna let someone just come and take MY peace!I asked her to care for her kids,no tv after 7pm,if she was in room,kids needed to be in room with her,dinner time was 5pm for kids.Girl the rest of the time they were at my house,they behaved well..

but definitely talk to your fiance

I don't get people that DON'T discipline their children. I was actually arguing with my mother today about my brothers behavior NOT being okay. She told me to worry about my son and let her worry about hers. When what your child is doing is directly affecting me, I think I have a right to say something about it. I'm not being mean by telling a CHILD something they don't want to hear.. I am an adult and you will do what I say and treat me with respect. I told her that if my son ever treated me in that way and she didn't discipline him, I would be really upset. He is in your house and you have every right to make rules. That isn't being mean or showing that you don't like him, that is just how it goes. Your SO should understand that 😕 just because he doesn't see him often doesn't mean there shouldn't be rules. If that is what he thinks, his son is gonna give him a run for his money when he won't respect rules in the future. Doesn't mean you don't like the kid. Every child needs rules.

@babymay2016, @babylanders @lucylue thank you so much ladies .