Ladies I have a question. I truly don't like my husbands ex wife/ kids mother. At first I gave her a…
Ladies I have a question. I truly don't like my husbands ex wife/ kids mother. At first I gave her a chance but she's proving more and more she's a baby mama true by definition. She plays games with the kids and childsupport. And lately have been saying slick things out her mouth to my husband about me and our unborn child. She's confided to my SIL that she hates me and doesn't understand why my husband couldn't stay and make their marriage work. (Btw I met him three years after their separation and a year after the divorce was final, so no over lapping. I don't do married men) But then the heffa has the audacity to try and be fake in my face and smile like the stuff was never said. Since February 21 (exact date I know cause we had a bday party for my nephew) we dropped the kids off to her , because she made the reply I shouldn't come to the drop offs to my husband. I've been feeling disgust that even the sound of her name makes me pissed. I feel really bad cause anytime I hear her name I instantly get irritated because I feel stifled from telling her fake ass about herself out of respect for my husband and the kids. But today while on the phone with my husband I let loose and told him how I felt about her and with all the feelings of disgust and irritation I feel for her showing through. He feels I'm wrong for letting her get to me and after a while became irritated. Do you guys think I'm wrong for doing that?
Alexa·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I think I would feel the same way . . . but unfortunately you may have to bw the bigger person for the sake of the kids, you know? I would probably try my best to avoid her just to keep myself from getting irritated lol
Veronique·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@amilo561, yes That's definitely my goal to stay far far away. Lol. My poor poor husband. Lol
Gwendolyn Paschal·
В ожидании первенца
Don't give in to what she wants. She wants you and hubby to argue. She shouldn't be an issue or worth a conversation. The mother of my hubby's baby sends text msgs and has all these requests once her son told her about me being pregnant. I don't get into it. I won't give her the time of day but my husband doesn't entertain it either. She wants what u have. Don't let it get to you. It won't do you any good.
Gwendolyn Paschal·
В ожидании первенца
Folks hate on greatness.
Veronique·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@gcpaschal, I know you're right. It's hard though. I feel I should at least be able to say something to him. That way it keeps me from saying something to her. But I try my best to grin and bare the fakery.
Gwendolyn Paschal·
В ожидании первенца
I wouldn't be fake though. To SIL, to hubby or to her. You know why his baby's mother doesn't bother me? Because at the end of the day it's solely about the kid. My husband doesn't entertain her at all but more importantly..she's unhappy. Don't let someone change the beautiful woman you are. You have every right to let them know not to bring that negative shit your way. Don't let someone's unhappiness boil over to your life. Your marriage is sacred and both of you should protect it. Who cares what they say. Just don't let them say it and enjoy your company. Give them your ass to kiss and keep it moving. Let your success do all the talking. I only know from experience.
nicole·
Мама троих детей
I agree... Unfortunately I'm dealing with the same issue but I've found that we just ignore her and she doesn't even call or text anymore unless it's very important and it's only by text my husband told her that her voice makes his MS flare up n that's crushed her lol sorry but I'm glad she got her feelings hurt...but his daughter calls when she wants n he calls and the ex never talks only hands the daughter the phone but in my situation this heffa is married just had a baby 6 months ago n now is 2 months pregnant she is very unhappy very because she told his sister she is trying to have a boy because she knows my husband really wants a boy and he has the girl with her and a girl with me but she wants to rub it in his face mind u she is 31 yrs old....just petty...just remember misery LOVES company so don't give them any
Veronique·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
@nhenson23, thanks for the advice
nicole·
Мама троих детей
@baby6aryn, ur welcome I hope things will get better for u