please no judgment: has anyone ever have an SO who was so sweet and then out of no where become an…
please no judgment:
has anyone ever have an SO who was so sweet and then out of no where become an inconsiderate asshole and is willing to throw it all away??
and then on top of that, I have a friend who is male and has been my ear to hear me out and let me vent and is my best friend and you realize ur heart is with your best friend bc he treats u so much better and u realize u deserve better than ur actual SO bc he makes u feel less than what you are?!
idk what to do but I'm seriously depressed and its like my mind knows but my heart hasnt caught up yet bc my SO is the father of my child 😳
Amber·
how long have you guys been together? I've found out that at around 2 years or so you start really getting tired of each other and you start having like make or break fights that are super stressful, once you get.past those, which lasts prob for 2-3 months, then your relationship is like 40 times stronger. my so and i were on the verge of seperating, then after a while we both kinda calmed down, and all.the fighting kinda brought us closerr when it was all over believe it or not. just from personal experience idk your situation.
Vanessa·
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since June 2015. we kinda jumped quick but we were so in love but now its like I don't even know him. the beginning of this pregnancy it was a lil rough and then it was amazing and now it's like he got worse and idek where it came from 😔@babyzoeysmommy
Victoria Santiago·
In past relationships yes .....but my heart goes out to you I would never be able to go through that shit again!
Amber·
@nessa_475 well hang in there girl, it may get better, he's probably just stressing over the baby, but friends are good to have, so I'd keep talking to him if that helps you vent. :) hope everything works at for you
Vanessa·
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how long did it take you to admit to yourself that he wasn't worth the fight anymore 😳 @v_daloca and thank you, I jus wish I had pple here to physically help me thru this
Vanessa·
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thank you. tho, he won't talk to me bc he wants me to apologize for something I didn't even do and I don't see that being right @babyzoeysmommy
Victoria Santiago·
It took me 3 years @v_daloca honestly it was an abusive relationship so I was all kinds of fucked up and so in luuuuuv and I hated the feeling of heartbreak but u know what I learned? The sooner u face ur fears the sooner it will be over and u can be HAPPY
Vanessa·
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that's beautiful thank you hun @v_daloca and I'm sorry you went thru that. my past relationships were abusive and my SO isn't abusive physically but he's abusive mentally and emotionally and it fucks with my emotions and my mind.
Victoria Santiago·
Keep in mind that no matter what kind of abuse it's still just as damaging, it can wear you out! If he's willing to.... just sit down and tell him everything on your mind and if he decides to be an ass and turn it on you then he obvi has something going on with in himself because when I sit down with my man now about things we work it out its never like "oh so u want me to leave " or "ya but you do this to me" ....in order for things to get better someone has to suck up their pride and talk, If I were you I'd do reverse psychology on him and go up to him and say "I'm sorry for bothering you right now and being hormonal, and sorry if I get you upset by asking you this...but why do you not love me anymore?" It makes him feel guilty and at the same time apologizing for just something random even if u didn't do anything and he will end up saying something.
Victoria Santiago·
Just play the boohoo girl on him (even if ur boiling up and want to hit him inside lol) and see what happens and how he reacts to get a response out of hom