Ok on a rant! So i have a 6 yr old with cerebral palsey and is totally dependent. I also have a 10…

Ok on a rant! So i have a 6 yr old with cerebral palsey and is totally dependent. I also have a 10 month old that is currently sick. So my oldest son has a surgery tomorrow and is being admitted. I asked my ex their father to either stay at the hospital with my oldest or in the lobby with our youngest. He hasnt been around for a year since he left me for his best friends gf. Now i wouldnt have a problem with him taking him if she hadnt harassed me and said that my kids arnt his ect... Im sorry if she doesnt respect me i sure as hell dont trust her or want my kids near her. Further more he has never told her to respect me as the mother of his kids. So now he has the balls to say for me to grow up. I used to let him take them everyother weekend but when you disrespect me and insult my kids then no im sorry but you can not take my kids....