So I was trying to avoid a c section but I might have to get one. Why are they considered so bad? If…

its not bad its just a longer recovery and for women who is mothers already its really hard on them because you cant do much because your so sore and you cant pick up little ones

Oh ok! Thanks! @mommy971516

it's not bad, it's a longer recovery as @mommy971516 ... I have had 2.... there is a stigma attached to them because some people (who are obviously uneducated) think you didn't give birth or you took the easy way out.... which is the FARTHEST thing from. the truth is isn't even funny..... it's major surgery honestly.... and if you get your baby here in the safest way possible. for the 2 of you then by God you gave birth.... it's really not all bad, but you are very limited in what you can do for a while.... feel free to ask me any questions, I have had 1 emergency and 1 scheduled c-section

its not bad to get one. but it wouldn't have been my choice if I did get to choose, the healing process was horrible and I felt like I was robbed of bonding with my baby, mainly because I didn't get to hold him for about two hours, I had to watch everyone else enjoy his sweet cuddles before me. but I am forever grateful for my c section, my sons safe and healthy! @iheartyvettee

@sarahdrew, agreed

I've had one and I'm super tiny!

I had one Wednesday and it wasn't bad... but i am not gonna lie it's painful the first time getting up and just real sore. but they try and mange the pain well though.