So me and my SO live 40 mins away from each other and neither one of us have a car( getting one…

So me and my SO live 40 mins away from each other and neither one of us have a car( getting one soon) and we are working on finding an adorable apartment and I feel like if I don't ask him to visit he wouldn't do it on his own, I told him this and his response is because he doesn't like to only spend a couple hours with me he prefers to spend as much time as he wants and yeah that's sweet but I feel lonely af....when he's at work if he feels like it he'll call me or text me on his break/lunch but that's not everyday that's only when he feels like it and don't get me wrong I love our daughter but when she gets here it's going to be about her I'm going to be in full mommy mode and I don't think he'll understand that because as soon as I'm tired he'll probably complain about how tired he is from work....I pray it's not like that but what he's showing me now isn't making me feel better.......[just venting]