I have known my guy since I started high school which is crazy. we were friends and were dating…

I have known my guy since I started high school which is crazy. we were friends and were dating different people until....he became single and i was still with my now ex bf of 3 years that was becoming more distant. Then, things changed when we got to college years which was crazy. Friends with benefits who became more than that and look at us now!! 15 years as friends and 9 years going on 10 December 1st. Guess what.....we are not married yet lmao financially we can't do it but we already made that promise to each other. Many feel I did it wrong and shouldn't get my hopes up but IT'S MY LIFE!! (little girl is my adopted sister and that happy little boy is my loving son)