Is it frowned upon to say "you have 30 days to pack your shit up and get the fuck out of my house"…

Ouch. Depends on the reasoning

@andiryan93, 'best friends' don't disown you after having a child. I've taken this bastard in THREE times so he wasn't homeless. Gave him money when I shouldn't have. Was there when he was depressed. Helped get him back on his feet. And after I had my daughter that he was sooooo 'excited' about, he acts like I don't fucking exist. He posted on Facebook "Glad I have a friend I can blow off steam to cuz I have so much going on. You know who you are." I'm just soo fucking aggravated and I'm done putting up with it. Honestly I'm hurt cuz we've been through so much and he can't come to me to vent. But for living problems, his room STINKS, he makes a mess of the kitchen, he can't fucking pick up after himself, and he's just annoying to have around. And it's just a little pathetic that my husband and I are 22&21; years old that have to take care of an almost 31 year old.

In all rights if you have e give him chance after chance to do what is right, you can give him a verbal 30 day notice, and then turn around and give him a written Emergency 72 hour notice!

@snowbaby313, is the 72 hour notice really a thing?!?!

Yes ma'am! Google it. They even have templates to help you write one!

@snowbaby313, thank you!! Now let's hope I get this new position at work so we can afford to not have a POS roommate!

Good luck to you!