I feel so unattractive now. hubby won't give me any affection ever since I gave birth. he looks away…

Maybe talking with him might help, my husband was that way with our first and when we finally talked he said it was because he didn't know how to act or if it was to soon to touch me or didn't know if I was still in pain.

Talk to him, this will tear you two apart. I bet he's unaware of his behavior.. Men can be so oblivious.

Have you thought about maybe he thinks you don't want to be looked at? Communicate. That's the only way to get this out in the open and you will be closer.

@mommastone, he knows that I love when he looks at me.

Okay like we all said, talk to him. Like straight up what you said on here. Exactly.

@mommy_of_three, @myliltadpole1116 @mommastone a lot of good talking to him did. he's now mad at me, ignoring me, and refuses to be in the same room as me

well if that made him mad, there's a deeper problem. he's acting like a child. you should be able to talk to him about anything , especially something so personal without him getting mad

he should be supporting you and helping you and loving you. not ignoring you

@savvylynn1, he came in the room after I said that and calmly spoke to me. he knew he was in the wrong acting like that. before I said that, he had said "there's no point when I can't touch or do anything with you"

Glad he came back after Hope everything works out @arijane316

@mommy_of_three, they will eventually

that's how it was for me!

@smalltownmama, I hate men lol