So my boyfriend and I are fighting he keeps telling me to get an abortion. I'm 8w+3days I keep telling him I can't cuz…

This baby I'm pregnant w now the dad didn't want think he still doesn't but he told me last month to get rid of it I said no! He's mad we've talked on & off but we're not talking now don't know if he's going to come around or not

the thing is we were fine before I had to go say goodbye to my dying grandma Idk what is going on

I'm totally against abortions

You can sill get an abortion at 8 weeks if you want.

have you asked him why he doesn't want the baby? if he did at first then doesn't now then there has to be something going on.

I don't want to thou that's the thing

I have tried but he won't talk to me

What other people think of an abortion is completely irrelevant. They aren't the ones that will have to care for the child. People always have an opinion on what's right and what's wrong but don't help the mom if she does choose to keep the baby. Do what's right for you.

Your body, your choice. If he doesn't like it, he's a pos and doesn't need to be a father. Stay away from abusive men

it sounds like if u do want to keep it then your gonna have to put him in his place or not be with him. I agree with @jesjeslovesyou you have to do what's right for you but I will tell you from my personal experience it leaves you with a lot of regret and hurt ! I had to have counseling after cause I had nightmares but I did what was right at the time so you just need to make that decision also!

Same here. I'm way against abortions too. @anjones8394

@mommytobe201621, I'm not going to go thru with it I just want to prove to him I can't get one

That's good. I'm so glad to hear that. @anjones8394

screw him. its you're baby. do what makes YOU happy.

thankfully it's your decision and yours alone! that's is so wrong. my husband did the same thing. It really pissed me off.

@michellevaldez4750, it does me to but we have talked and he only said it cuz he was mad and he wanted me to be mad with

him

yes! my husband does that when he's mad too. seriously though he crosses lines. tells me he hopes he stresses me out enough to where I lose the baby! wtf??? what kind of person does that?!