just wondering but my dad doesn't want me having anymore kids after this one which I don't want one…

He may feel like he is losing HIS baby, ya know? While it's a little intimidating for us to be a first time parent, its a scary thought for them to be first time grandparents. If that makes sense.

did him and your mom have you at a young age?

My family made comments after all my kids. We had our first at 16. So right now we have an almost 10,5 and 9 month old. And I'm 11 weeks pregnant again. I have yet to have anyone in 5 (had a miscarriage) be excited or happy or say any encouraging words when I get pregnant. They all love the kids but are so negative until I actually have the baby. But when anyone else in the family gets pregnant it's all rainbows and happiness for them😒

My dad has acted like I've made the worse mistake by being pregnant but my sister who is 2 years older than me he was all happy and what not for her and me and my SO have been together over a year I understand how you feel and I can't tell you why he's doing it

that's true but I swear if my sister were to get pregnant who is 16 I promise he would be so excited for her but yes that makes sense @pixiestix and yes ma'am my mom was 16 and he was 19 @aurielshantel and omg yes that's totally my dad right there @jenn61115 and same I mean he will get use to it eventually I hope @victoriaaaron12

@mommy.to.be.041016, he may just feel like you are too young and doesn't know how to express that and if you are closer to him than the rest of your siblings he may just feel like he's losing his little girl

ohhh well that does make sense me and him have bad communication skills with each other I cut him off a lot because of the negativity he puts off when he talks to me like he doesn't care and my fiance gets mad when I forgive him cause its in my heart to do so that's my dad regardless my fiance just doesn't want to put our son through that with my dad if he's like that towards me and a lot of other people he's sure he's gonna be like that with him it just puts me in a difficult situation all the time @aurielshantel cause its like I have to pick in the end between the two -_-

@mommy.to.be.041016, im sure he's gonna have a whole new attitude when the baby actually gets here

yea I hope so he sent me a package yesterday in the mail of baby stuff but I wrote this long paragraph of how thankful I was of him doing that and he just says "welcome" maybe he's just bipolar or something lol @aurielshantel

men suck when it comes to emotions anyway tho