its okay to vent that sounds just like my situation but the only difference is he has brothers.like I said pray that his mothers and sisters can get up on they own feet and pray your husband finds understanding with the whole situation. cause trust me God can handle it yu just have to trust that he will

it's been 5 years here. and it's so hard to tell him to not help his mom or sisters but they walk all over him snd ask for so many favors. not to mention he acts like more of a parent than his mother does. I know how horrible it sounds with me saying that but it's true. she's always asking to not pay for things right away, or to borrow stuff, she lives with us for so long with out paying anything she drinks all the alcohol we have. etc. she finally leaves and he's still constantly doing her favors. but his sisters as her for something she will drop everything. and he will drop everything for all of them. my siblings and I don't even have parents anymore and we aren't as needy as they are. we hate asking for favors and borrowing. even in shitty situations . I love thst he cares for family and does everything for them but we are our own family.now. we can't afford to keep our own household afloat and afford to enable his family's bad habits. sorry. im.jsut venting now... idk how you deal with it @kiwkisses I bring it up and he gets extremely defensive.

I'm dealing with the same thing sweetie just try talking to him in private and if that doesn't help then pray for them all that's all you can do I've been dealing with it for going on 7 years now