I've noticed a lot of people posting about how they have issues with major drama on here. That is…
I've noticed a lot of people posting about how they have issues with major drama on here. That is really stupid. I personally haven't come across any drama myself but it makes me upset knowing a lot of you have. We are all in this crazy journey of trying to conceive, pregnancy, or motherhood and each stage brings challenges...challenges that don't need to be interrupted by Internet drama from someone going through the same things! I don't want to be sappy and say "let's just all get along" because I know that's easier said than done, but I do want to put out there that if I ever post something that seems offensive or hurts someone's feelings, anything like that, it is absolutely not intentional. I don't think I would post anything that someone would take the wrong way but just in case I do, I don't mean it in a negative way towards anyone. I have really enjoyed this app since I downloaded it a couple weeks ago, I'm 32 weeks along and wish that I've had it my whole pregnancy! I wish ALL of you the best in whatever part of the journey you're on, and I can only hope you wish me the best too 😘
breanna·
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It's because most people are rude about their opinions. (Teen mothers, how others parent,) just judgemental posts . I completely agree with you though!
emily·
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I wish people wouldn't be rude just to voice their opinion...it doesn't make people want to agree with the opinion more 😒 @breannaedwards_
breanna·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Exactly. I've gotten into it with a girl on here because she was pointing out teen mothers. I said something to her asking politely to delete her comment pretty much and it just went from there. The bad part is is that she was only 20, so her life couldn't be any more put together than mine. (I'm a teen mother)@emkasting
emily·
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Ugh really? I guess I just can't understand people like that because I would never judge a teen mother, unless she was doing something to put her baby in danger or something like that. But judging someone for being pregnant because of their age just doesn't make sense to me, yeah it was most likely an accident for most teen mothers but for someone to step up and own the responsibility of having a child so young takes a lot of strength and I admire that. I'm 23 so I'm not too much older than teen years and I'm still gonna struggle with a lot of stuff, so if someone were judging a teen mother based on age and what challenges she'll face I would take that kind of personally. @breannaedwards_
breanna·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I agree with you completely. Like I could be a better mom than a 30 year old mother and they would still judge me because of my age. Really irritating.
emily·
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Right! And I'm sure a lot of the judgment comes from what they think your financial situation is. I'll admit that my money situation is not the best right now and the timing of my pregnancy was not great, but I know this baby is going to be SO loved and that money is such a minuscule part of being a mother. People don't seem to understand that at all. There's so much more to being a good parent than money. Although it stresses me out I know in a year's time we will be in a better financial place (hopefully) so right now all I want to focus on is giving my baby the biggest amount of love he can handle
emily·
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@beeannaedwards_