my middle son sat there for 5 minutes talking about he wants a sister and to name her Leah from…
my middle son sat there for 5 minutes talking about he wants a sister and to name her Leah from shimmer and shine and how he wants he to be purple and brown....he's 4 lol then he hit me with have a baby with the old daddy meaning his dad...this is so not OK and I'm so not telling my bf that he will be sad react wrong and push himself away I don't get it me and my oldest two dad have been broken up for I think three years can't even remember my bf and father of my youngest gas been around two years.. and I feel my son hasn't warmed up to him nor tries to he talk them out maybe not as much as he should but he's not mean unless you consider time out and correcting behavior and putting them in their place mean when they are acting out I just don't get how he is so stuck on his dad and I we broke up when he was a month or so shy of turning 2.. his brother us fine I mean I'm sure it bothered him but he saw what went down longer ...what if he never is ok with my bf and I would have to choose when I ask if he likes him he always says yes but then says thing like he just did sometimes he's excited when he's not home and working ....I'm confused
Jaz Marley·
Мама дочки (3 года)
a child will always love their father more if thas who they r around... now if he was never around that shud be confusing...but he loves his dad...don't mean he don't like yur bf but it prolly will never be the same amount as his own father...
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
my stepson calls his bio dad "daddy sam" and his step dad "daddy brian"... while Sam doesn't get as much time with his son as Brian does (since the step dad married baby momma, and then later divorced) he still chooses to go to his bio dads house more over his ex step dad, who he does still somewhat care about... he has a new step dad that came in a year ago when he was 4 years old, and still hasn't warmed up to the guy enough for him to be the father figure Sam and Brian have been for the first 3 years, and it may never happen. it's the saying "your ex isn't your child's ex", even if the man was a piece of shit to you💩 lol
Sarah krashin·
Мама троих детей
@kattastrophe, Google point ,I may dislike his dad but Idc if he loves him I just thought he'd warm up to my bf who he at times calls stepdaddy,I'd how to expand me and his dad won't ever happen ,he's asked why I don't like him before all I could say is he's not nice to me and he said he will tell him to say sorry lol this time he told me to say sorry I'm not even comfortable to be near my ex see him or call him evert hung is done by text or through my dad that man is cruel evil and conniving and can convince anybody that he's nice and I'm just crazy,I left him cause I didn't like the bad fights when my son was one he saw it and i think even got pushed down as he was watching his dad drag me around the horror on his face is the exact moment I decided to be done and it was what I thought to be the best decision for the boys so they wouldn't see that and pick up the behavior I don't regret it just hate my son misses us together but he doesn't fully understand he just wants the people he loves most together in one house,taking baby steps to be a better Co parent at least on my end ,I want there to be peace and what's in the past left in the past and it just to be about the kids not to much to ask for sorry so long lol
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
when he's older I think it'll be easier to explain things to him, kids do learn by example, so if that's how it was, you made a great choice to protect your babies. he probably likes his step daddy very much, but only time will tell whether he accepts him as a father or if he changes how he feels about his bio dad.... I think you're doing a great job regardless❤ (: