Just found out my Tia is naming her second son Nathan which has me pretty pissed off. Like, I know this irrational but I…
Just found out my Tia is naming her second son Nathan which has me pretty pissed off. Like, I know this irrational but I wanna cry lol ugh.
1) she KNEW I was going to name my first baby Nathan if it were a boy and that I still planned on using it in the future
2) my nephew was named Jesse Nathan (totally upset me there too) but we called him Nathan. He passed away and my Tia is due the day before his would be 1st birthday and I find it totally distasteful for her to be naming her son that so close to his birthday!
I mean if she were family to my sister and actually watched my nephew grow then maaayyyyyybe I'd find it sweet, but no. She's the type of person you can't say anything to because she steals it all.
Ughhhhhh I wanna be petty soooooo badly but I'm not. God doesn't like ugly and He can take away just as fast as He gave so Ima play it safe and shut my mouth. Just needed to rant.
babymay2016·
I don't think that is distasteful... I worry that people think this also about the name I picked, but it has always been special to me and this name has been on my heart my whole life. Maybe she has reasons you don't know about. My aunt tried forever to have a baby and had a stillborn at 5 months not even knowing she was pregnant. His name was Zane and he passed away about 18 years ago. She was never able to have any other children but helped raise me and my brothers. I also lost a baby who would have been a year old next month. My aunt was the only person who really understood my pain. Now I am pregnant with a little boy and his name will be Zayne. I don't find that distasteful at all. I was kind enough to ask if it would bother her but really I shouldn't have even had to do that. Everyone should be able to name their child whatever they want.
Chelsea·
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Okay but I get that, I do. Because honestly I plan on using Nathan or Nathanael for this baby if it's boy, even though it was my nephews name. The problem I have with my Tia doing this is she is spiteful and does things like this allll the damn time on purpose. It's different when someone does it in memory of a lost loved one and someone who does this crap just because she has no original ideas in her head. @babymay2016
babymay2016·
I understand that. I know people like this also, but they just are that way and they're never gonna change! If you want to name your son that, then I say you should still do it and not care. She doesn't care so why should you care 😂
Chelsea·
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They just irk me 😤 lol @babymay2016
Chelsea·
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Oooooooo I can't stand people like that! That's exactly how my Tia is. It's why nobody likes her but I try to stick up for her and be her friend but then she goes and does crap like this and I'm just like 🙄😤 @mel0011
Chelsea·
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That's why she won't be included with any of my preparations for this baby. I told her I was going to name my baby Nathan when I was pregnant last year but I ended up miscarrying and now all of a sudden she's naming her son that 🙄 we've poured over 10000000 baby names together when she was pregnant with her first son and not once was Nathan mentioned 😒 but oh well. I guess there's about to be 2 Nathan's in my family this year 😂 well if I'm having a boy at least lol@mel0011
Chelsea·
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Watch me have a girl now for being petty like her 😂😂😂 oh Lord lol @mel0011
Melinda ·
Your not being petty at all
Chelsea·
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If I named my baby Nathan to spite her I would be :/ but it's okay because the real name I wanted for so long was Nathanael but my hubby couldn't pronounce it very well so we decided on Nathan and I fell in love with it. I can just use Nathanael and still call him Nathan :) @mel0011