Okay Mommies So Let Me Update You A Little Bit As You Remember I Broke Up With My Boyfriend (BD) And…
Okay Mommies So Let Me Update You A Little Bit As You Remember I Broke Up With My Boyfriend (BD) And I Thought He Was Starting To Get The Hint That He Needed To Do Better So I Forgave Him After A Few Days. So Wednesday His Grandfather Called Me . Note His Mom Had Already Talked To His Grandad So I Couldnt Lie. But His Grandad Asked Me Was He Trying To Find A Job And I Said No. So He Gets Mad And Says Im Doggin Him Out This That And The Third I Dont Love Him.. Blah Blah! So We've Been Sleeping In Seperate Rooms And Haven't Been Talking Since. Now What Pissed Me Off Was When He Said I Didnt Love Him! This Whole Relationship I've Supported Him Been Faithful Held Him Down Weither He Was Broke Or Not Job Or Not Even When He Spent 60 Days In Jail I Was At The Visitations When He Called I Talked To Him Everytime I Have Money I Think About Him.. Basically I Put Him And His Feelings Before My Own And Im Just Tired. Because Hes Never Goin Grown Up Even His Own Mom Said Hes Selfish And Thinks Only About Himself! She Even Was Telling Me He Stole From Her Numerous Times. So I Mean Ive Been Praying And This Thing With Us Not Talking Im Not Goin Lie It Bothers Me But I Think Its For The Best. I Just Feel Bad For My Daughter Because Her Dad Is Someone Who Doesn't Care About Anyone But Himself. And He Has A 2 Year Old Also (Gabby) And He Does Nothing For Her But I Help Gabbys Mom Out As Much As I Can. But The Thought Of Being A Single Mom Scares Me But Idk What You Think Ladies
missing82user·
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He's a grown ass boy. Sorry to say that 😕 He needs to make his own changes. And it sucks right now but do what's best for your baby girl and walk away. The only one you should be stressing over is her.
mashaunda·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)
With my first pregnancy (my son is 1 now) his dad didn't work, always came up with exuses and was also VERY selfish. When he would get money somehow it wouldn't be on any baby products it would be on him. Sometimes a guy (a bum) is only there for you to benefit from you and wants that stops you'll start seeing change for EX (now your BD is in his feelings) come on now he know he loves you he just wants someone to have sympathy for him etc. don't fall for it. Give him an ultimatum or he will continue to just be comfortable the way he is. I FEARED being a single mother. That was the LAST thing I wanted and my BD knew that. But you can't take care of supposedly a grown ass man. That's what your baby is for and that's what his daughter is for. Now more and likely if he hasn't done any improvement on his first child then chances are just MAYBE he'll be the same way with this one. You can't change a man and you can't someone who doesn't want to be helped. I cut that shit out when my son was 4 months old. I was so stuck on the idea of being a single mother but trust he your BD is just extra baggage that you really don't need. Yeah you love him, and I loved mine but you gotta think for your child and yourself. As long as you have support you are going to be good. 🤗
Hi! I'm Kiera 😊·
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@raegenice Exactly! Hes 23 Its Time To Grow Up
Hi! I'm Kiera 😊·
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@shwayzelovee Your Right All He Wants Is Me To Be All Up In His Face Saying Im Sorry Blah Blah Like No! Im Not Kissing Your Ass My Daughter Will Be Here In 8 Weeks Thats My Only Concern
mashaunda·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)
And my BD is young. 23 going on 24 but I swear he fooled my ass! And he has 6 kids prolly number 7 on the way smh. I don't talk to him anymore because I want to kill him lol so I prefer my boyfriend now to take up the role. Shit happens and in your case, be smart and don't be fooled. You'll be stressing forever dealing with a little ass boy.
Hi! I'm Kiera 😊·
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@shwayzelovee see I Hope I Can Be Like You Meet Someone That Will Be There For Me & My Daughter
Chanisha·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 10 лет)
If he doesn't take care of his first daughter that's a huge red flag, he needs to man up and take care of his responsibilities. You didn't make this baby by yourself so he needs to step it all the way up or sad to say you might just need to leave him. You can do bad by yourself luv... Hope things work out for you and your daughter ☺️
mashaunda·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)
I thought nobody would want me cus I have a baby, a newborn at the time but MEN love that and you will find someone way better to support and PROVIDE for you and yours if it ever comes to that point. Stay positive and most importantly pray because God will give you signs and do not ignore them. It's for the better. 🤗 I wish you the best luck. You got this girl!
Hi! I'm Kiera 😊·
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@beenpretty1 everyone tells him that but he dont care . its just sad. and thank you keep us in your prayers
Hi! I'm Kiera 😊·
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@shwayzelovee Thanks So Much 💗
mashaunda·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)
You're so welcome. Love to help!
Chanisha·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 10 лет)
I sure will Hun ✨🙏🏾 everything will work out for the best ...
Tricia·
if he isnt doing much to help now your pretty much going to be a single mom now with an extra mouth to feed but if hes gone you will just have your daughter to focus on, iam sorry you are going through this
Hi! I'm Kiera 😊·
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@mommy_with_lace your right Thats why its just best to focus on emma
Tricia·
ill be praying fpr you i know its not easy, i have gone through this before and he finally grown up and started doing better for us after i left him