honey you take your baby when you want to take your baby from someone. that's your right. if they don't like it then though. I made alot of people mad with my 1st because I'd refuse to give her to them. they'd ask to hold her and I'd be like no she's ok for now laying on me or well imma have to feed her if you wake her up so it's best she not be moved. you're not being rude. wanting your own baby isn't rude lol mama's are allowed to be selfish. we go thru all the crap with them so.

How u being rude that's ur baby