If your unborn's father hasn't been in the picture throughout almost the whole Pregnancy and now all…
If your unborn's father hasn't been in the picture throughout almost the whole Pregnancy and now all of a sudden he wants to do better and want the baby to have his last name. Would you allow the baby to have his last name?
Zabryna·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
I wouldn't. I had that same issue gave my daughter his last name and now he's out of the picture again. Its a decision I really regret. :/
missing82user·
В ожидании первенца
Honestly...no. Because does the baby having his last name mean he'll actually be around?? That's not something I'd want to be upset about or regret later
emily·
В ожидании первенца
No because he could just disappear again and once the baby becomes school age having his last name might mean you'll have to ask his permission for certain things (school things) just because of the last name
Cassandra·
Nope! You're not married. My ex isn't getting that wish.. No matter how hard he begs. That way you can also control a lot. Like @emkasting said school and appointments he will need proof rather than just being able to take his kid and go. I also believe it's a respect thing so my son will always have my last name and carry on the family tradition. Even if my ex and I were on good terms my son would get my family's name.
Okeema·
Мама двоих (4 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
NO
Brittany·
I'm glad you asked this because I'm personally going through the same thing right now. I don't know what I should do.
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I did. But it's 100% up to you. You can always change it too. and I think it's free for the first year or something like that if you change your mind.
Becca VC·
В ожидании первенца
If you aren't married I'd say no. My older sister has three kids, all with different last, none with hers. None of the dads are in the picture anymore. :\
Amber Ramey·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (9 нед.)
Hell no!
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
My kids all have their fathers last name. I think it's a personal choice. Sometimes I am frustrated when dads flake because I could have just given them my last name and been done with it. However, I chose to lay down with him and the kids are a product of him. He deserves to have his last name attached to them.
Amanda Fikes·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Just my opinion