Adjusting to being a twin mommy is not easy!!! Am I falling apart trying to recover from this c…

Awe tell those babies you insist! I had to make mine for the first 3 weeks! I feel you on the belly and scar though 😒 lol

@mizg1989, it will get easier, I promise! The first 3-4 months I hardly even remember because I was so exhausted lol but it starts getting fun around 5 months when they're more independent and you can interact with them more. Hang in there!!

Lol. I be having moments of insanity. Smh. But they did sleep all night last night although bedtime has started after midnight. And yes, this incision is killing my life.... @tahtahme

@boenischpartyof5, I sure hope so... right now I have thoughts of pulling my braids out. Lol.

yeah our bedtime is midnight or later too 😂😂 It is so tiring, I tell myself one baby would be a breeze lmao, Ive had to just sit and listen to them scream at me a few times, but watching them grow is amazing.

how old are yours now? @boenischpartyof5

@tahtahme, we say that too! Haha babies in general are hard but after have 2 at the same time, one baby would definitely be easier. Our girls just turned 8 months. They don't sleep through the night but I've basically gotten used to it so it's not as bad. Those first few months though....lord that was hard

You give me hope... @boenischpartyof5

@mizg1989, I'm sad because my friends who had their babies were in complete baby land whereas for me, and us, we were working double time trying to bond with each baby as well as keep ourselves alive. It is 100% survival mode at first and then it eases up. Just get through that first chapter and I promise there's a light waiting for you. After that, it gets so much fun. No a day goes by where my girls don't make me cry from laughing (some days cry from frustration lol).

@boenischpartyof5, I completely understand. I'm only 2 weeks in and about 3 of my friends just had their baby's within a month of me having mine and they seem like they have so much life in them. And your right, I feel like I'm trying to hold everything together, which is the hardest. I think he copes better. Wanting to cry is an understatement. Lol.

@mizg1989, it's normal to feel that way. My boyfriend took a week off and during the day we took turns napping and at night we both got up with them. Probably the first 2 months we spent sleeping sitting up with the lamp on because they were up every 2 hours. I had premade formula ready to go so I could just quickly grab it. Everything was and still is "working smarter, not harder". For me, I just could not gather the energy to pump so I only lasted a month, which looking back now I wish I tried harder but I also knew just how emotionally and physically drained I was. Once you get the routine going it does get easier to cope and transition