Okay so... (Long) But What Would You Do.
Okay so... (Long)
But What Would You Do.
You date a guy that has a baby on the way, you knew he was still seeing his baby's mother before you made things official. You didn't know that he was telling his baby's mother that they would probably get back together and that she couldn't date anyone. Then his baby mother finds out that he's been acting different and then he finally admits to her he's dating you. After things are official between you & him he slows down on caring about his baby's mother being pregnant. Now the baby mother is outraged because apparently he's been lying to her and this was I guess his third time getting a girlfriend while she's been pregnant. Every since he started dating you he hasn't been interested in the pregnancy doesn't go to any appointments and barely asks about the progress of the baby & now the baby's mother is fed up and doesn't want him to be apart of anything anymore and doesn't wish to continue having any communication with him. & you are in the middle of all of this. What would you do?
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
leave him.. he was between you and a female holding his child.. his priorities weren't straight to begin with if he was lying and then fessed up.. then to bail on his child.. wrong wrong wrong..
Mrs.RJ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I would cut all ties. First red flag a complicated Baby mama situation.
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
I would definitely cut ties cause if he does this with his ex then he might do it to you as well
Taylor·
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I wouldn't want any part in that. Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do.
Amber·
I've been threw this. Stick by the guys side and as soon as the baby came. He left me for her. The whole time he was trying to play us both. Not saying he's gonna do the same just remember he is having a child with her and if ur not sure what to do is get out now. B4 u get to attached to him.
myra·
girl run as fast as you can RED FLAGS all about the place geesh. what he did to her he will definitely do to you . I don't blame her what so ever.
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (20 нед.)
I would not be interested in someone who is capable of doing that to someone he fathered a child with. I have had this happen to me so I know the flip side and it's down right sickening. I'm glad you can see through it but I think it's time you said good bye. He needs to get his priorities straight before he can be in a successful relationship with anyone (you, his ex, or the child they are expecting)
Camryn's Mommy·
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@amberstar, @gypsy.soul2 @myramercado @reaganmommy2015 @taylorrleee1 Thanks .. In the story I'm actually not the "You". I'm the babys mother. The girlfriend messaged me today and we ended up arguing but she's not understanding he led both of us on. This isn't the first thing he's done to me so I'm willing to just let him go. I wouldn't be so mad if we were just screwing around and I got pregnant but he actually well we actually tried for this baby. Is what makes me so mad for him to walk out.
jessica·
Girl leave him and get child support from him if you can
missing82user·
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I would leave him. He's not worth the drama and you shouldn't be near it. That's their issue to deal with and it could happen to you just the same.
Amber·
See I didn't know he was still with the other girl having the baby. And him and I had a past b4 her so my situation is different. But I will say he is still with the baby's mother they just had another child actually.
gordie·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
how u get a man is how u lose a man n if a bitch can keep a man away from his child they both can go kick rocks bare foot n the poorest part of Africa
emily·
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Not worth being with him. If he can just up and forget about his unborn child that's on the way and act like it's not happening then what would stop him from acting the same way if you were to get pregnant. The pregnant ex has a right to feel how she does, probably upset, abandoned, hurt. All things that I would certainly feel if my baby's father left me and started dating someone else after committing to being a good father. But I don't know the whole situation obviously, I just think this guy needs to get his priorities all kinds of straightened out before starting to date around
bianca·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
leave him not you nor her deserve him sounds selfish and childish 100% ain't nobody got time for that.
bianca·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
clearly a lier and on a fast track to being a "deadbeat" absent father. why tie a rusty boat an core to yourself
Gabby·
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sorry but fuck that dude. he sounds awful. your baby needs someone who will be a constant part of her life not someone who comes and goes as he pleases messing with her emotions