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Rhonda Otero
Rhonda Otero
Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

So I have a doctors appointment today. My husband woke up mad because for one he missed the train…

So I have a doctors appointment today. My husband woke up mad because for one he missed the train and so I said take the car, he said no. Then woke up an hour later and started asking me about jeans. He's been off the past two days and I did laundry yesterday and ran out of soap which I asked him to get on Friday and again yesterday but he forgot. So now he is upset because he doesn't have the jeans he wants to wear. So he decides to take the car which is fine except I've had my bags packed for weeks and I've asked him to put the stuff in the car multiple times and it's still sitting in the living room. He works two hours away and if I go into labor the hospital is closer to him than our place. So he gave me money to take a cab (this office is 3 blocks away on our same street) I'm going to walk because I am ready to deliver but I'm going to be pissed if I go into labor and don't have all my stuff because he didn't do his part... Smh I'm expected to do everything like pick up the damn clothes you throw on the floor everyday when the hamper is 3 feet away and at 9 months it's pretty damn hard to bend down but it's been at least 2-3 weeks since I've packed our bags and everything is sitting in the living room. We already have a unique situation because we have no family here to watch our kids. I say charge the iPads (that's the only way my husband is going to be able to be in the delivery room) I need the kids occupied and behaving and on FaceTime with my parents... He charges them and puts them up like HELLO put them in my bag!! I delivered my daughter in 14 mins exactly after my water broke. The hospital is 30 mins away and this is the furthest I've ever gotten in pregnancy (34 & 35 week deliveries) and I call and tell him he should have put my stuff in the car and he says you're not going into labor until I get home smh!!! Ughh!!!! I'm so annoyed I'm prepared but once again my husband thinks he knows everything. I'm going to go ape shit if I go into labor and I don't have my stuff! We have no family no help and he has no fucking excuse

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chinkalink

Stephanie

В ожидании первенца

I know the feeling 😒

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rhonda.otero

Rhonda Otero

Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@chinkalink, it's so frustrating! I'm so annoyed because I'm tired of being the one to tell him I told you so... You would think he would be tired of hearing it. He sent me a pic of a shirt that says I don't need google my wife knows everything. You would think that he would actually start listening lol

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chinkalink

Stephanie

В ожидании первенца

Lol yes , my bf is the same way . Men just love procrastinating .

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princesshope

Tiara

Sorry to hear that but don't stress it's not good for the baby

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rhonda.otero

Rhonda Otero

Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@princesshope, easier said than done. I'm already in a new state no friends or family. Mom was just diagnosed with shingles so she won't be able to be here for the delivery like she was with my other two. All my family booked their tickets for my induction last month and then doctor changed his mind so all money was lost and no tickets are booked for this go around. My moms close friend shot herself on Friday. I pretty much think I'm depressed but my husband says it's just stress.. I just want something to go right and don't want to have to think about it and something so little he can help me with and is just taking his time

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princesshope

Tiara

I will send you a message

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