My fiancé just dropped two major bombshells on me and idk what to think or feel 😕 first he told me…

My fiancé just dropped two major bombshells on me and idk what to think or feel 😕 first he told me he wants to be a recreational therapist, which I support 100%. But then he told me that to get that degree, he has to go an hour and 40 minutes away for a year, possibly more. He'll be going after we get married, but he says he will be living the "college life" if he goes away, but says he'd never cheat...

Second, my cousin and good friend from high school are getting married this year. My cousins wedding is sept 23rd, my friends is sept 25th. He said he will only go to one wedding with me and that's it. He's not doing two weddings in one weekend and he's not talking about it anymore..I'm hurt that he won't go to something that's important to me and put his own feelings aside for once...it's always about him and what he wants or needs but I'm never considered...(I know that sounds dramatic, just how I'm feeling right now) I just feel really hurt..I love him so much, I just feel so upset :/