I swear I love my husband but his kids are just something else since his son was the first…

And what does ur man say about it ? I mean if he's treating you right and he's on your side then fk her

@mrsmord, he has gone off on his mom and his kids and his babymama but it makes me super mad that my kids get kicked to the side just because they aren't my husband's and it's been 3 year going on 4 years we been together and nothing has changed with his family everyone else excepts us it's just his mom and his sister who has her moods about us

Eh forget about them I know a lot of people who have issues with their MiL , as long as he's there for you and sticks up for you

Yeah that's true I was only over there because my brother in law came to town but other then that I'm never over there or i won't get off the car he knows I can't stand his mom @mrsmord

I understand to a Extens, My boyfriend of 5 years been there for my daughter since she was 1. and to him she is his, it took a minute to get use to it for his mom i guess. she is nice which before she was more mean and even has brought her Christmas gifts more than 1 Christmas. which i appreciate but I think she could do more, she buys her BLOOD grandkids Alot more gifts. when she sees them, she is the same, more welcoming to them and showing more love. (with my daughter she gives hugs here and there if my daughter does it first) but my daughter is just not used to not being super welcomed by anyone (because my family is big and is welcoming Bloood or Not)sometimes it annoys me. and i worry that once my son comes she'll act like my daughter doesn't exist completely nd make her fell left out. Especially from a pass comment she made when she was like 2-3 which made my Bf so pissed at her and make me think. plus, his sister likes everything about her and already basically said to him "that's not your real daughter " & doesn't really acknowledge my daughter much.

@parbear, that's exactly how it it like my kids are noone to them and my kids call them their Mexican grandma and grandpa I mean they buy my step son a laptop, cell phone, headphone namebrand, jordans, new clothes and my sister in law will go and buy all the nieces cute outfits and shoes which there are 3 of them and my husband will be like what about lilly? (my daughter) she will be like oh I forgot I didn't think of her she pissed me off and I will never talk to her the same after she told my husband this we asked if she could pick my kids up from school but we said if she could pick THE kids up so she thought of his kids and we said no lilly and Anthony she came back with (those aren't my kids) I was like bitch I never said they were after that I stopped talking to I don't even tell her hi when I see her I told my husband I don't need them to play grandma or tia they have a grandma (my mom) and they have 3 tias plus 3 tia in laws so they have enough family to go around and buy them all kinds of stuff and I gave my mother in law school pictures of my kids from last year and she lost them she doesn't know where they are but she has all the pictures of all her other grandkids up everywhere and every year of my husband's kids of their school pictures I told I'm not giving her a picture of the baby when he comes if she can't treat my kids like her grandkids then she won't treat my son like that either I don't play these games at all

in 5 years we took family pics for the first time, and I have yet to see them up in her house. but soon her daughter started having kids which she has 3 and 1 on the way. it's pictures of her and her husband and there 2 kids but I'm thinking maybe she doesn't have room and haven't got to it, So mayb... IDK ( they live in a apartment ) and that's exactly how I feel, my kids are and will be siblings and needs to be treated like so from anyone. and if she doesn't than she won't see him much.

@mommyof5kayla, yeah try not to go near them it's not worth it

@parbear, I already told my husband she won't be around the baby as much as my family will be trust me on that and he kinda got mad but he knew where I was coming from @mrsmord I try not to i try to stay away from the drama as much as possible that's why I don't go to her house or let my kids go over or stay the night when his son asked for my son to stay because then they start fighting and my son is to blame

Yeah don't let your son go I'm sure she wouldn't even care if he came or not because sounds like she's a real treat . Live your own life and distance from them , you have your own family now with your hubby and kids that's it .

@mrsmord, thank you love I really needed to tell this out in talk to my husband but he trys to see it from everyone side and I get mad alot so thank you and also thank you @parbear for talking to me as well

@mommyof5kayla, anytime I know a lot of people with horrible mil stories so I learn from it , my mil thank gd I an angel so I'm alright but I deff think staying away is the best and hubby understanding that he has his own family now and if ur girl isn't happy then something wrong and needs to change

no problem at All...