Get another hobby to help get your mind off pregnancy 👍🏽 We were trying for a year and a half and I got really bad back pains in Decemeber and I started going to the chiropractor and getting massages and right before I got my MRI done of my lower back they had me test for pregnancy and there my little jelly bean was 😬 Total surprise because for two months, all I could think about was the back pain! It def hits you when you least expect it.