OK, my baby shower is this weekend and we only have 54 days until our due date. We have toured our…

OK, my baby shower is this weekend and we only have 54 days until our due date. We have toured our hospitals; I was fine until then. It made everything so surreal..There's no turning back! Now, I'm nervous as heck to give birth! Any insights on it for you second and so on mommies?! I'm so nervous! Is it that bad?! Epidural or no epidural?! Hellppp!!