I love this, too many people look at c-section mamas negatively and say "oh you took the easy way out" I want to look at them and say "easy way my @$$ I had major freaking surgery to bring my child into this world, it felt like I was still being ripped open when I woke up (first time was emergency), not to mention the pain I felt when I laughed, sneezed, coughed anything... and I still had all that wonderful bleeding"
@sarahdrew, exactly! I'm sick of hearing people down mother's who had c-sections for whatever reason, it's like you said major surgery, healing time is ridiculous & the pain is ridiculous like.. I guess it's something people won't understand unless they've been through it
that's very true, I had one of my husbands nephews (he had just turned 19) as me "you had a c-section, so it was easier for you right?" I could go off on the poor kid so I said "actually it's a lot harder. your mom had one when she had you, you could ask her as well. but it's a lot more pain and it's major surgery" he was like "wow I didn't know it was major surgery."
@sarahdrew, yeah it's ridiculous how people who don't know always put in their 2 cents about "how easy it is" or anything negative it pisses me off like 🖕 lol
my spinal didn't hurt with my second.... I was scared the first time, because my son was going to be early.... and then I had to be completely put under
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I love this, too many people look at c-section mamas negatively and say "oh you took the easy way out" I want to look at them and say "easy way my @$$ I had major freaking surgery to bring my child into this world, it felt like I was still being ripped open when I woke up (first time was emergency), not to mention the pain I felt when I laughed, sneezed, coughed anything... and I still had all that wonderful bleeding"
Diane Colon·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@sarahdrew, exactly! I'm sick of hearing people down mother's who had c-sections for whatever reason, it's like you said major surgery, healing time is ridiculous & the pain is ridiculous like.. I guess it's something people won't understand unless they've been through it
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
that's very true, I had one of my husbands nephews (he had just turned 19) as me "you had a c-section, so it was easier for you right?" I could go off on the poor kid so I said "actually it's a lot harder. your mom had one when she had you, you could ask her as well. but it's a lot more pain and it's major surgery" he was like "wow I didn't know it was major surgery."
Tierra·
I had to have a csection, tomorrow will be a week since. It is definitely not the easy way out.
Diane Colon·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@sarahdrew, yeah it's ridiculous how people who don't know always put in their 2 cents about "how easy it is" or anything negative it pisses me off like 🖕 lol
Diane Colon·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@teemarie1994, definitely not! I had an emergency c-section with my Angel baby last year & I'm having another one in April & it's tough!
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
exactly... it just irks me lol
Tierra·
@mrscolon, the ones who think its so easy would be the ones complaing the most of they had to go through it
Diane Colon·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@sarahdrew, same here, lol
Diane Colon·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@teemarie1994, exactly my thoughts!
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@teemarie1994, you are 100% correct on that one
Tierra·
@neneandmax, @sarahdrew I was scared shitless when I was getting ready to have my csection and the epidural hurt like hell.
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
my spinal didn't hurt with my second.... I was scared the first time, because my son was going to be early.... and then I had to be completely put under
Tierra·
@sarahdrew, I had my boy at 34 weeks he is in the nicu.
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@teemarie1994, my son was 32 weeks 4 days.... I was also a nicu mama
Tierra·
@sarahdrew, cleanest you will ever be being a nicu mommy
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
that is so so true
Tierra·
@sarahdrew, Surprisingly I still have skin on my arms
Sarah Drew·
Мама двоих (младенец)
lol I felt the same way.... and my nicu hospital was an hour away but thankfully they had rooms we could rent there for a really cheap price