I have a guest coming over. Cleaned up last night and was told everything else was put away as I was…

I have a guest coming over. Cleaned up last night and was told everything else was put away as I was feeling like hell from what I did. Roommate got up with the 3 yr old this morning. Get up and ready only to find that my roommate is asleep on the couch, AGAIN, while the toddler has made a disaster zone. Food was left out last night which means my cats most likely ate stuff they aren't supposed to... I'm so done already