He's too tired to stay up with his daughter... But he taking females out to breakfast at 6 am after…

I am going through the same thing somewhat. Similar situations. Mine may be a lot worse.

He put his hands on me when I confronted him about the cheated... He's spending the night in jail, we live together so who knows what'll happen after he gets out @calebsmommy1121

Well mine was cheating with a woman in his social club. The first time I asked him about it he said no. So I asked today because the woman is supposedly pregnant by him. He said he did mess with her and isn't sure if she is even pregnant. That brings me back to what the hell I should even do.

And as far as him spending the night in jail. I think when he gets out he might be level headed and you two may be able to talk things over. But you would know him better than me. Does he have a temper? Is this the first time he's touched you?

Oh wow girl I'm sorry, I've been through somethin like that in a past relationship. I'm here if u need to talk. @calebsmommy1121

Yes he has a temper, no it's never gotten physical, well he actually has to go in front of the judge in the morning and I gotta go too, either to press charges or not... I don't want to ruin his life by pressing charges @calebsmommy1121

I honestly don't know what to do. It's going on 3 years in July and we have a son who will be 4 months this month. Girl I don't know whether to give up or try to stay in it and work it out

I wouldn't press charges I would let the judge know that you hope he learned his lesson by spending one night there but if it happens again you're pressing charges. Maybe he will straighten up then. I'm sure he's in there for the night thinking about the situation now.

Yea I know how you're feeling, u wanna work it out for your sons sake but at the same time you're so hurt u wanna say fuck it @calebsmommy1121

Yea I knew when they took him I wasn't going to press charges. But I've told him since day one if he ever put his hands on me he'd regret it. But as far as our relationship goes it's done, we been on the brink of breaking up anyway this was just the icing on the cake @calebsmommy1121

Exactly. And if he's cheating on me now and if this woman is pregnant what will stop him from cheating again. He even stays out all night because he claims to not be a house body

But I think you and yours will be fine. You twos situation isn't too rough and you guys have room to fix it. It's not like he has a baby on the way or anything

Oh well you already have a clear mind about it. The only reason my sons father is still around is when I'm at work he has the baby. But on Tuesday im going to look at a daycare hopefully everything works out. The day I enroll my son in daycare is the day his dad and I are done. Wish me luck

Good luck girl... My guy told me he was only with me because of Bailey because if he left me I'd move out and take her with me... So sounds to me like he don't want to be with me anyway. Ugh I hate daycare, hopefully it won't come to that @calebsmommy1121

my ex did the same as both of us hubby's did I tried to make it work for 3 yrs and just got worse over time so I left and been with my now fiance foe just about 5 years and loves my daughter like his own plus I think what I also made me leave is my daughter was hurt by what she saw and herd etc and I saw what it's like for a child to grow up like that i saw a girl and boy who's parents stayed together etc even tho there was cheating going on and putting hands on each other and they kids turned out the same way the parents did it was like watching history repeat again.

At times I wish it did work out but I also have an amazing hubby in my life who's totally lpysl

Well congrats on the new fiancé!! And I refuse to have my daughter in a toxic environment because that's something I didn't deal with growing up so I know she deserves better than what she's been getting.. I'm just scared to do it alone @caisner

Awwwwww wow! I didn't know he was staying just for Bailey.

Yea... He's said it more than once to me @calebsmommy1121

Remember your never alone ever ... @baileyandco1029