ughh how do I have a diploma and not doing anything just being a stay at home mom then my hubby…

ughh how do I have a diploma and not doing anything just being a stay at home mom then my hubby don't help for crap I do everything by myself with the kids as soon as i ask him to do somthibg i always get some kind of excuse an we going on our 3rd baby Oh lord please help me he will never understand