So instead of talking about it, my fiance is upset because I asked that we don't post pictures of my…

girl I think it's something in the water tonight I want 2 cry 2 & my husband doesn't care

I personally feel like friends could wait to visit until you're home and have had at least a few days to recover and relax.

I don't think it's appropriate for anyone to visit too early. I personally know I'm not going to want anyone outside of our immediate family coming to visit until the baby is at least a month old. just because I want time to settle in. men don't understand that we as woman need time to get situated after carrying a baby for 9 months and giving birth.

@lil_bigmama, I already was crying because I felt he was "mean" to me over how we each do our count down. but like, seriously??

@shawtypop another big reason. is my son won't be able to meet her until Saturday probably, so it would've broken my heart that everyone got to see her before him. I don't have family, I have my son

Sometimes men just don't get it. I'm not allowing anyone to visit me. The hospital is a time for me and the baby. We have some recovery to do and I really don't want random people in and out. I've only ok'd one person so far. You get to make the final call.

@cass_lynne, like I'm going to be relearning breastfeeding and recovering from major surgery. I was going to tell him take her out to the hall if it means that much that he sees her in the hospital, but I don't want anyone in my hospital room

I'm learning how to breast feed and I find it really uncomfortable for people to be around when I'm going to be trying to figure it out and when my boobs are out. I'll let a few people. But it's mainly going to be me and my baby and my mother. No one else. They can all wait until we are home. I won't even let my ex come. I don't feel comfortable around him to begin with so he's not allowed at the hospital.

do like I told my family girl b a bitch I know I was I had my mom my dad my now husband & my brother where able 2 c her the 1st day I had her & I said none was to put my child on Facebook or anything tell I gave the ok I had 2 aunts the showed up & I wouldn't let the nurse let them in I didn't even let my brother gf of years & her kid c her tell the next day I made them wait in the waiting room I felt like crap I had a c section idk how I was going 2 feel after so when I was told a few weeks b4 I had her I told everyone lol my leann will c her brother b4 I let other ppl in the room uk it's ur kid with any birth u never know what could go wrong god 4bid uk

@cass_lynne, that's how it was with my son. I just had a blanket over me the majority of the time. like that's what I tried to explain to him and he just got pissed off and stormed off

@lil_bigmama, and it's dumb because he is NOT a face booker at all. his profile picture is from before we even got pregnant. he never posts ultrasounds or anything and I really couldn't care less. when he got upset when I asked about the pictures I just said do what you want, I didn't want to because my son won't be able to see her until Saturday so it felt shitty to me to let people I don't even know see her when my son cant. but getting mad because I asked another male not visit

Tell him after ur boy gets 2 c him ur fine with it just u want ur 1st baby 2 meet his sister b4 the rest of them do

@lil_bigmama, I tried. like especially after earlier with my mother in law, I just feel like everyone is trying to put my son on the back burner.

I hate that I really do he's just got 2 understand u know he's over joyed but ur son is too men r just stupid sometimes or at least my husband is

@lil_bigmama, and tbh I probably wouldn't be as upset if this was a good friend. the dude lives 10 minutes away and has seen my fiance 2x since we got pregnant. once to move his bed (he's our old roommate) and the 2nd was our baby shower. whenever thru used to go out, he would cheat on his girlfriend and try to get my fiance to do the same. I have 0 care about their relationship, but I don't feel like he's on the "he gets to meet her before my son" level

yep I wouldn't either girl