Warning this is a rant!:

so to try to keep this short I'll just jump my way into the question. Do you ever resent your husband/significant other/baby daddy for not helping up enough? I'm not a traditional minded person what so ever. before I became a mother I had always worked, didn't think house chores are for the woman to complete, and I stood up for my beliefs. now that I'm mom, I think I do everything to keep my house clean, family taken care of, work part time, and attend to every need that my daughter has(she has a gtube). my bf does nothing to help, except when I work. we also have a lazy roommate...so I clean his shit up too. I feel burnt out, stressed, resentful, sad....
I feel like, if I asked him for more help, he'd say "why, if I already worked all day and make more money?" am I a bad person/gf for being mad? all I want is a more engaged, helpful bf that gets it.