I think it's a damn shame the amount of girls on here complaining of being pregnant at least u can…

THANK YOU. I made a post about this and so many people bitched about it like I was being unreasonable.

I really wanna smack some of these people and I mean I'm not talking about the ones that are in pain but the ones that are like six weeks pregnant talking about get this baby out of me are you kidding me why even get pregnant in the first place makes me so angry @i.xvi.mmxvi

Just because someone is over being pregnant doesn't mean they're not grateful. It's not a walk in the park for some.

My vagina feels like it's going to snap, but I love feeling my baby kick and move. 100% worth all of it.

I used to feel that way but a lot of women like to use this as an outlet. It's a very uncomfortable process and of course I love the fact that I'm growing this beautiful person inside me and I'm very grateful for that but I don't have a lot of people to complain about the crappy parts to so I put it on here sometimes, and I believe that's where a lot of women are at this point.

but again, its not our fault that other women can't get pregnant or what they have gone thru. I honestly do feel bad that they're in those types of situations, but again, us pregnant women are allowed to complain no matter how small or big the symptoms or situations we go thru while pregnant. I myself haven't complained on here about this pregnancy besides wanting to be able to birth already since I just had my son 10m ago. but I'm sure I have in my previous pregnancies and probably will farther into this one. it doesn't mean we don't love our baby in our stomach or that were ungrateful for our pregnancy but everyone has their own was of talking about it. remember pregnancy isn't always sunshine and rainbows, in fact some women have medical problems causing horrible pains and aches making them complain. I have gallstones and pregnant, being pregnant can cause horrible pain to my gallbladder and cause an attack, so if that happens, then I'll complain, just as any other women would about being nauseous.

Also, I, as well as many others on here try to balance it out with positive posts. :)

@heatha3005, Yes. And some of the stuff I'm like "you really shoulda thought about that before you got pregnant" Like when women complain about being "stuck" in the house with a screaming baby. Like, that's what babies do? Why wouldn't you want to be in the house, or anywhere, with your baby? My twins died and I would give anything to be "stuck" with them.

@kelseys, yes exactly. And it's not like that's ALL people post on here. We post about how magical the feeling is of the baby moving, for instance.

women come on here to vent and ask opinions of other mothers and share things people who aren't pregnant wouldn't understand or would be grossed out by. It's not them bitching and complaining that they're pregnant. This is the only place I can vent and ask questions because fb is too judgemental.

I understand everything you all are saying I should have made my post more clear I'm not talking about people that are in pain and struggling with their pregnancy I know this is an out let but wen I see women literally say I wish I wasn't pregnant it makes me go crazy @kelseys @gcpaschal @kmunoz @mercyoftea we all have struggles but I think to say that is basically slapping people in the face who have lost or can't get prego I'm in my feelings clearly

@heatha3005, I understand what you're saying. I can't believe how blessed I am, having this sweet boy on the way when we weren't even trying to get pregnant.

@gcpaschal, exactly. You can be grateful everyday and be really sick. I know someone who had morning sickness so bad she was in and out of the hospital and lost her baby at 5 months. No matter how much you love you unborn child or how hard you try to be pregnant nobody will enjoy being real sick. I am grateful I'm pregnant but I complain to my boyfriend about being sick I even complain to my doctors because I want a healthy baby.

My best friend has gotten pregnant around the same time I did with both my babies and she lost her babies both times. I completely get where you're coming from. I try not to complain, but baby #2 has been rough on my lower regions the last few weeks. I also wish people would be more greatful for their babies

Preach!!!!!! I try my damn hardest to not complain about how I feel because I know people having way worse issues with their pregnancy or woman crying like 3 at once. So I should not complain about anything.

saying I don't want to be pregnant and complaining are two different things tho. and who are we to judge that person saying? maybe they have depression or other mental health problems that they don't put out there for everyone to know. I know myself have thought to myself what it would be like to not have children, but that doesn't mean I don't love them, its just a thought. I've also complained to my husband on countless occasions how I'm tired of being stuck in a house 24/7. it doesn't mean I don't want to be with my children, but I would like to get out and get some fresh air myself, even if my children are with me its fine.@i.xvi.mmxvi, so I'm sorry for your loss but because we want to get out of the house doesn't mean we don't want our children, because honestly I'm fine with having my kids with me all the time but we also need some fresh air.

Thank you @kelseys. I don't get the connection whatsoever. Furthermore I'm 36, had an ectopic pregnancy last year and loss the baby and my Fallopian tube. I don't see how we're even comparing the two. I'm not comparing myself to anyone else period. So I can complain about whatever I choose to. I would never say omg I don't want this baby. That's how folks make it seem. You're pregnant for a long time, your body changes dramatically. This is no walk in the park for everyone. At the end of the day we're all entitled to ours and I respectfully disagree. I don't get bent out of shape about these convos. Let me get one more thing across though. If you feel this way about this you should feel the same about how many women complain about their SO. Should they just be happy to be in a relationship no matter how that person makes them feel? Life is uncomfortable at times..people complain about shit.

being in a relationship that makes you feel some type of way has nothing to do with a women blatantly being ignorant about the fact she's pregnant and wishes herself not to be on a site where people want to be or are struggling to be or having troubleing complications idk how this post got misunderstood for anything all I was saying is its sad that their are ungreatful people out there that can't appreciate the beautiful creation inside them @gcpaschal