"don't stress or get angry cuz it can hurt the baby" but then "where's the $1400 you owe me? i want…

"don't stress or get angry cuz it can hurt the baby" but then "where's the $1400 you owe me? i want it in full" when she knows i have to find a house and move within the next 3 months and only one working is my husband and we struggle to pay the normal bills we have (this is my step mothers wonderful though process) i really don't understand this lady but adding on stress and always asking bout money when she has a gambling addiction...but wonders why i dont hand her that much at once. can i just disappear for a while?? its gettin to the point i dont want her or my dad in my daughters life at this point. petty ass drama queen can't stand seeing someone start to do better so she knocks the person back down till they feel like shit. real grown for bein damn near 60 i swear