I no longer want a baby shower, I just wanted to have a slumber party with my best friends instead. My husband which we are in the process of a divorce told my the real reason he doesn't want our marriage. I'm don't want to be nice anymore. I just want us to have a good co-parenting relationship. But, don't want to act like all is well for a baby shower. I'm so ready to get a divorce it's not even funny anymore. He said he's in love with the woman he cheated on me with who tells their current wife stuff like that. Our marriage is over because he is obsessed with a woman that don't even want him. The working through this marriage now.
Can you have a baby shower for just you and your friends/ family? If you're close to his side then maybe invite them too? I just hate for him to take this moment you have with your baby away. Don't let him control or dictate your feelings, if you want a shower, have one without him there. Every pregnant woman deserves an entire day dedicated to them and their new baby ☺️❤️
I've prayed constantly over my marriage and finally his true side has been revealed. I'm so heartbroken due to go to therapy trying to make it work and come to find out he was trying. He doesn't want to change and I'm sick of our relationship. I just want to take care of my kids but, he's wants custody of one of my 3 kids. I can't believe he wants to separate my kids. I wish he would find some else to have a baby with and leave me and the kids alone. idk what to do anymore?
He's going to regret it and he's going to come back crying on his knees! God is not the one to play with especially with stuff like this!
girl no one deserves to go through that I'm sorry your ex is wrong for that completely I could say a lot of things about dirt bags like that but I'll keep it to a minimum for the respect of those babies of yours
@boenischpartyof5, My best friend said she is still going to through me one. it's going to be a surprise so his family can't get mad when it happens.