I don't think I've ever been so upset/worried about someone in my life. I care about my boyfriend so…
I don't think I've ever been so upset/worried about someone in my life. I care about my boyfriend so much but some of the stuff he does makes me question if he even thinks before he acts. Here I am awake since 2 this morning having to lock the door and clean up the puke in our daughters room, where he passed out. I'm seven months pregnant having to take care of my boyfriend and keep him on his side so he doesn't suffocate on vomit. We have to be at work by 5:30 and I can't even find his car keys or phone anywhere. I don't think I'm liking his new friend he went out with yesterday afternoon. I just don't know what to do, he never would have done this shit before. And I cannot stop crying because I don't think he cares about me or cares about wanting to be a family. He wouldn't have went out and got drunk if he did, right? Ugh. I don't know. I've never had to deal with this before. Help ladies 😩
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That sounds stressful. :( im sorry your going through that. I wish you the best.
Autumn·
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I can't take being stressed. I hate that environment for my daughter 😔 @andiryan93
tiffany·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
well u definitely can't blame the friend but sounds like u need to put ur foot down but u dont need the stress
Autumn·
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I'm not blaming his friend for the stupid decisions my boyfriend was making. I just think if he was a good friend he wouldn't have let my boyfriend get drunk at his house when we all have to be at work early, and he definitely shouldn't have let him drive home. It's hard to like someone like that, you know? @luvmyboldens
tiffany·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
oh my man has friends I wish would die off ... but i would try to talk to him n tell him if he don't straighten up he won't be in her life
Autumn·
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I don't want to take it that far, this is the first time this has happened. But if he continues I don't want him to be in my life at all. It's too much stress and I don't think he understands. I just wish I knew why he went out so I could talk to him and help him with whatever is going on. I don't know if he was trying to relieve his own stress, or just have a good time. He never acts this way. I don't want to threaten him with the thought that we won't be together as a family but I also don't want him to go out and make those stupid choices again. @luvmyboldens
Courtney Kline·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
Hopefully it was just a one time thing and he will straighten up once the baby is born. My husband did the same thing when I was pregnant with our first born and I gave him hell for it. It's not a good situation. Thankfully he doesn't hang out with the people he did back then. He works and comes home to his family. Good luck momma!
D·
I'm really sorry that you have to go thru this, but remember that guys are stressing out about new baby too, unfortunately they many times find relives in stupid things ;) theirs brain are working differently, when women is stressing about new baby, she wants to prepare everything, just be ready, guys just want have they space ;) maybe try talking with him, no screaming, no arguing, no finger pointing, just simple talk about baby, new situation, that he's spending less time with you and how you feel :)
remember that if he'll think that you're attacking him, he may going out even more (guys! 😩)